(Closed) When to send invites to the B list?

posted 10 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 4
1061 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

just clicked on the link that angel provided and i realized that i had answered that one also! but we’ve changed our plans slightly:

a-list going out 12 weeks before

a-list responses back 6 weeks before (b-list going out as we get a-list declines)

remainder of b-list going out 6 weeks before

b-list responses back 2 weeks before (we have a separate RSVP card for b-listers)

we moved the timelines up when my mom reminded me that for my bat mitzvah, people didn’t respond until the last minute, so we really needed to give b-listers enough time to respond so that they didn’t realize that they were b-listers. these are long timelines, but it’s summer and i figure people are on vaca and are thinking about other things.

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