(Closed) When to send out Save the Dates?

posted 6 years ago in Destination Weddings
Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I would send an email or something to his close family/friends in Australia now, telling them you plan to get married in the US and the approximate timing. I think that’s enough for this far out, they’ll have plenty of time to think about if they can make the trip. Then, after you’ve booked a venue, you can send out the Save-The-Date Cards (I would probably send them 6 months to a year in advance).

We aren’t having people travel as far as you for ours, but most of our friends/family live on the east coast, and we’re getting married in California, so it’s about a 5 hour flight for most. Most of our close family and friends are aware of the location/date because it’s come up in conversation, but we’re also working on sending out Save-The-Date Cards about 9-10 months in advance (I probably would have send them even a couple months earlier but it took us longer than expected to find and book a venue!)

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I second the idea of emailing people who will be traveling. Honestly, I don’t think many people have calendars that go as far ahead as 2014, so it’s really hard to actually remember to plan to attend a wedding that far out. I agree with PP that you should mail out the Save-The-Date Cards 6 months to a year in advance.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Tell people now an approximate time like fall 2014 or something like that and send out the STD about 12 months in advance. I was surprised at how many people said they were comming and ended up not at the last minute for financial reason. our wedding is a 14 hour drive from most of our 95% of our family members and friends. Give people as much time as possible and then hopefully you can give them lots of time with a firm date and location so people can book seat sales and things like that as they come up.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Save-The-Date Cards have the date on them, so if you don’t know your date then I would hold off. 

I’ve never heard of ones being maild when you don’t know a specific date (as in the venue is booked, there’s your date)

But the etiquette is 9-12 months in advance of the wedding date for save the dates.

We sent ours out 11 months in advance for a Jackson Hole wedding with 100% Out of Town guests, and you will not believe how many things have changed in just 10 months.

When you do get a date/venue booked, I’d suggest making a free wedding website with more details.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

HI, we sent out 12 months before, I think any earlier might seem a bit odd and people might get confused about the year. We just put city and country on ours as we knew we wanted to get married in a certain location and we had heaps of choice for venues so we did not put venue on save the dates. We will put it on our invitations and we have put it on our website, we are telling our guests the website URL this month so 10 months out.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

To clarify, we sent out save the dates 12 months ahead, I think that is quite usual if guests are having to travel far.  Mine will ge going to Thailand from UK, US, Canada, NZ, Aus etc so I would say you should sent out 12 months, or even send 13 or 14 months more. You could just put city, state.

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