Post # 1
- Wedding: September 2014 - Historic Rosemont Manor
I’m getting married next September & we already have our save the dates in. We’ve started addressing them & putting them in the envelopes, but my mom thinks it’s too early to send them out. We’re getting married in Virginia, but we have guests coming in from Pennsylvania, Florida, Georgia, Canada, and even some from Holland. When did you send your save the dates & do you think December is too early to send them out?
Post # 3
- Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley
I sent mine out exactly 12 months prior because 100% of my family is out of town, which is a good 60 people. I wanted them to have ample time to plan and save for travel expenses. I would give your OOT guests as much notice as possible, especially ones traveling from out of the country.
Post # 4
- Wedding: May 2013 - Pavilion overlooking golf course scenery, reception at banquet hall
I sent mine 7 months before. Would’ve been 6, but my wedding was a holiday weekend and I didn’t want too many people to make plans without knowing about the wedding first. (They’re welcome to make plans of course, I just didn’t want “AWWWWWWWW we’re going to [wherever] that weekend! 🙁 🙁 :(” phonecalls.)
Post # 5
I sent mine a little over 10 months out – it was a DW for 90% of the guest list.
I wouldn’t send them out until the new year, just so they don’t get mixed up with all the holiday cards, party plans, etc. But anytime after the first week of january is fine 🙂
Post # 6
i sent out 6 months in advance but i had an 8 month engagement.
Post # 7
- Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry
I agree to wait until January. Your invitees will pay more attention to something received after the holidays are over.
Just make sure those you send them to are DEFINITE invitees. If you’re on the fence about anyone, hold off- you can always wait until March to send out “round two.”
Post # 8
Mine is October 4th and we are sending ours out in February or March.
Post # 9
- Wedding: September 2014 - Banff, Alberta
@MrsS_to_be: If you have a lot of out of town guests then as soon as possible. We sent ours out a few weeks ago. I did a post that asked if you were a guest from out of town when would you like your std’s and almost everyone said 1 year out.