(Closed) When to send thank-you (shower hasn’t happened yet)

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: When should you send a TY card
    When the gift is received in the mail (unwrapped gift) : (12 votes)
    92 %
    Wait for your shower to happen : (1 votes)
    8 %
    other? : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I think it’s fine to thank them now so they don’t have to wonder if it arrived or not.

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Thank them now!

    My shower was a month before the wedding, and I was so overwhelmed with everything that I still haven’t sent out all the shower thank you notes! And it’s time to get started on the wedding thank yous…

    Post # 5
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    401 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I would say to send the thank you note now.

    Post # 6
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    3265 posts
    Sugar bee

    @blu77: Send it now.  #1 They will know their gift arrived safe and sound and #2 it will mean less notes for you to write after the actual shower.

    Post # 8
    Member
    921 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I personally would mail it out with the rest of the thank you gifts after the shower

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