(Closed) When to shower????

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Shower, a month in advance. Try July 28th.

Bachelorette Party 1-2 weeks in advanced.

At least, thats how it was for me in my situation.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

For me, we did the shower about a month and a half before and bachelorette party 2 weeks before.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I agree with pp, end of july sounds great… not to threadjack but kind of on the same topic and it may help you out. we’re thinking of doing mine in late August for an October 20 wedding only because some of my BM’s are in school… I think this may be okay… not quite sure though what do you bee’s think? Too early for a shower?

Post # 6
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Bumble bee

My shower is in July (for an October wedding). I have too many commitments in August/September (read: weddings and events for others weddings!) to wait until a month before. I would say 1-3 months before is perfectly acceptable. My bachelorette is late August (so 2 months before). Again, I just didn’t want to compact too much activity into the month leading up to the big day!

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

@Woodstock:  You are getting married the weekend before me and I am having a July 28th shower. Not too early at ALL. (At least in my opinion). 🙂

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Woodstock:  Its fine. or you could try September 1st

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

My wedding is Sept. 22nd.

The shower is June 30th. My Maid/Matron of Honor is busy all of August and could not host it then. July was too busy with birthdays (mine, Fiance, MOH’s mom, dad and daughter). She told me she was originally going to have it 2 weeks before the wedding! I advised her that I might not be a nice person if that happened. So, that’s how we ended up in June.

My Bachelorette Party Trip is the first weekend in August.

My fiance’s Bachelor Party is in June! They couldn’t wait apparently! LOL

 

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I had my shower in March and I got married in May. A couple months is fine. July, as a PP suggested, sounds about right.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

My wedding is a day before yours and the shower is this Saturday (June 9th) and the bachelorette will be July 28th.

Post # 13
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

My date is 9/2 also! My shower is 7/7

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I had my shower last weekend and my wedding isn’t until October.  Though, one of my out of town BMs had told me she was going to be in town that weekend and didn’t even end up coming to my shower!

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Most of my family/friends are out of town (WAY OOT) related to where the wedding is.  To save them an extra long drive or plan ride, my shower was the day before the wedding.  I didn’t have a bachelorette party, just took my mom and Maid/Matron of Honor to the spa the day before that. 

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

My bm is planning on having my shower about a month before the wedding (I asked her to do it this way so the day of the shower coordinates with my hair and makeup trial).  She is planning it for maybe October 20 or 21.  Wedding is November 25.

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