(Closed) When to take pictures, before or after ceremony?!?!

posted 5 years ago in Photos/Videos
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

Fiance and I are debating this as well!  I kind of want the “first look” experience but want to see the look on his face when I walk down the aisle, too.  You can’t have it both ways, lol…sigh… I am thinking we will stick with tradition though.  

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

We did a first look, and we’re both glad we did. I don’t think it took away from the actual ceremony. We were able to get a lot of photos. I’m not sure we would’ve had enough time for bridal party pictures afterwards had we not done photos before. We did quick family pictures after the ceremony.

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

We’ll be doing our pictures after the ceremony. He refuses to do a first look, says its bad juju. Haha. I’m kinda with him though, but only because I really want to see his face when I walk down the aisle.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I personally hate going to weddings where theres a time gap between ceremony and reception cause I never know what to do. However, I’m discovering weddings where Im from is not the norm for most people. Ive never heard of cocktail hour before I came here lol. Its mostly just a everyone-disapper-for-a-couple-hours thing. 

I am doing picture beforehand. We are going to have a couple hours to do them at several locations and have a “first look” experience. Besides, when I first seem my groom, Im gonna hug the crap out of him and its gonna be a great intimate moment 🙂

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Before if you value spending time with guests

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I’m in the anti-first look group. My Fiance and I are pretty traditional. We will be doing our photos between the ceremony and reception while our guests are at cocktail hour.

Post # 12
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

we did our pictures before the ceremony.  the cocktail hour was immediately following the ceremony and we wanted to be apart of it with our guests.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

We did all our photos before the ceremony including a first look. I couldn’t be happier with it. I never liked being at weddings where everyone has to wait on the bride and groom while they take photos. We wanted to have time with our friends and family during the wedding. We also wanted to make sure we got the photos we wanted and doing it before the ceremony allowed us to do that. I wouldn’t trade how we did it for anything.

Post # 14
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Darling Husband and I did our first look and a few snapshots before the wedding.  The photographer also had me take some pictures with my brothers and Maid/Matron of Honor.  We took the rest of the pictures after the ceremony.  It was easier for us.  The guests were eating, dancing, and drinking already!

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

We did a mixture.  We didn’t see each other before the ceremony, but we separately took as many family photos as possible.  Then after the ceremony we did all the combined family photos before going off with our bridal party for more photos while our guests enjoyed the venue.  It worked well for us.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

We hopefully are going to take most before- that way we can enjoy our cocktail hour and our guest.  I really hope we won’t need to take any after the ceremony!

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