(Closed) When was the moment you realized you loved him?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
5271 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Mine was about a year after we started dating – yes, it takes me a long time to develop feelings.

Anyway, we decided to go on vacation together for 6 weeks just the two of us, 24 hours a day, everyday, backpacking through Eurpope. By this time, I knew that I had strong feelings for him and loved being around him; but it was during this trip and espically after we got home that I loved him more then ever. There is somthing about having fun/scary life experiences that helps you realize how much this person means to you. We grew even closer during our trip and came back very much in love. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 5
103 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

On our first official date.  We had known each other for years (not known well, just known of mostly and with lots of mutual friends) and met for lunch on a Friday just for fun.  Well, we had so much fun that we text all weekend, like non-stop.  Then set up a real date for the following Tuesday. 

The second he got out of his car to come and open my door for me, and I looked into his eyes, I knew I was done for….

Post # 6
452 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I love these stories!

I realized when we were on a trip to Boston with the Chemistry Club.  It was about 2-3 months into our relationship and we were all at the aquarium.  We were looking at the penguins and he said a joke about the penguins deciding to swim rather than fly, something like “F this, we’re swimming.”  It was so funny and unexpected at the time.  We didn’t tell eachother we loved each other for a few more months, on another trip, to D.C. on a walk.

Post # 7
925 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

After dating for 4 months, and having gone back to school 1000 miles away for one of them, I came back to be his date at his brother’s wedding. We had a blast, and afterward we put on the love songs cd, which was the wedding favor, and danced in his basement. We both kept saying “I really really really like you a lot” because we both knew what we wanted to say but were too shy to say it. I knew it then, though. 

Post # 8
676 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

couple of months after we met. He was difficult at first coz he was engaged before and she called it off over the telephone so we was very closed and cold but after i cussed him out he got his act together and was very lovely and still is

Post # 9
684 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

We knew each other for about 5 months before we started dating. After the 1st month of dating, we were hugging on a Montreal pier during a walk. I felt him so warm and eneregetic in my arms. We looked at each other and I just knew I never want to let him go! I had the same feeling at our 7 year anniversary on that same pier couple of days ago.

He knew from the first time we met. He didn’t want to leave my house that night. It was a movie night with friends at my house & somebody brought him along. Thank you, my friends ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 10
1002 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

After one month of dating, we had a great day together at the Toronto Zoo. I actually texted one of my best friends while we were there and told her that I was in love with him!

Post # 11
1423 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

It’s weird to say, but I don’t remember a time I didn’t love him. We were friends first, for four months before Fiance asked me out, so we were great friends, new each other well, etc. I pretty much knew on the first date that this was “it.” And he did, too. We exchanged “I love yous” for the first time after a month of dating, but Fiance said he wanted to tell me within the first week, but he thought I’d be freaked out. I wouldn’t have. Smile

Post # 12
1855 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Hmm..about a week after we met. He says he loved me after our first date. I think we said it after 3 weeks. He was super drunk and blurted it out.

Post # 13
2143 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I think it was about 2 weeks after we started dating, it wasn’t really a specific thing that happened, I just sort of realized it

We didn’t tell each other till months later though, because we were both too chicken ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 14
552 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

We were at a party where he was meeting some of my friends. It was a month or so into our relationship. He looked at me and mouthed “elephant shoes” which of course looked like he was mouthing “I love you’. It made me giggle, smile and made my heart melt. We exchanged real “I love yous” the next morning over coffee.



Post # 15
2398 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

My Darling Husband and I were just friends when he had a stroke, I realized then that I loved him and didnt want to live without him. We have been inseperable since that day. ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 16
1029 posts
Bumble bee

I know it’s cheesy, but the moment I laid eyes on him. Some say that’s lust and not love, but it wasn’t like a “Wow, he’s hot. I want to be on him” reaction. It was like time had slowed down and at that one moment, I just knew. Wow…I’m such a sap. Sorry if I just nauseated anyone that’s reading this. haha

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