(Closed) When was your S/Os and yours first real fight?

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: When was your first real fight?
    Within the first 6 months : (7 votes)
    26 %
    6 mos- 1 year : (9 votes)
    33 %
    1- 1.5 years : (1 votes)
    4 %
    1.5- 2 years : (3 votes)
    11 %
    2- 2.5 years : (0 votes)
    2.5 years + : (2 votes)
    7 %
    Never : (5 votes)
    19 %
    Other : (0 votes)
  • Post # 2
    Member
    278 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2015 - Haddonfield, NJ

    My Fiance and I are both unusually high-energy and hot-tempered. We moved in really early on (we started as roommates, don’t ask) and we fought A LOT in the beginning.. But I feel like we kind of grew together and matured together. Now we only fight very rarely. Maybe once a year, for the big ones. Any time I yell, I consider that a real fight. They never last longer than an hour or two, and I never go to bed angry. 

    Post # 3
    Member
    1042 posts
    Bumble bee

    alexa62:  In almost 5 years I can honestly say we have never gotten in a fight. And the extent of our disagreements is how the furniture is laid out or the removal of certain trees in our back yard. Lol. 

    Post # 4
    Member
    113 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2017

    Our “fights” usually happen because one of us is stressed because of something else and we just “blow up” in the moment.  Then less than a day later we reflect back on the “fight” and we’re like oh…yeah that wasn’t your fault.  My bad, and everything’s all good.

    We’ve been dating for close to a year, and other than him getting all crabby at me when I was helping him quit smoking, I really can’t recall any ligitimate fights.

    Post # 5
    Member
    780 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2015

    We dont really fight. We had like 5 fights i guess. We disagree sometimes but nothing big.We get mad, say what we have to say. My Darling Husband mostly gets frustrated and shuts down after he thinks that he’s repeating himself. I cannot help it but if someone i love yells at me, I’ll start crying. I give him some space, within 10 minutes or so, he comes to me, appologize and tell me that he loves me. Funny enough the biggest fight we’d ever had, was because he’s the one who always comes to me and appologize first. Before that fight i thought he was appologizing for raising his voice, and i thought i didnt do this, so i didnt appologize back. Now I appologize to him too, tell him I love him and then we talk about it. We keep calm, try to understand each other and make up. Thats it, so within half an hour we’re back to our cuddely, loving selfs.

    P.S. Our 4th anniversary will be in 2 weeks and we’ve been married for almost 4 months now

    Post # 6
    Member
    7905 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    Rarely I’ll get really frustrated with Darling Husband, but we’ve never been extremely angry with each other. We’re both pretty easygoing although Darling Husband is more so. The first time I was really frustrated with him was after about 5 months into dating, but it quickly resolved. 

    Post # 7
    Member
    1216 posts
    Bumble bee

    My dh and I have been married for almost 14 years…. so there has been alot of time to actually have disagreements or fights 🙂

    When I met him, he lived about 1.5 hours away from where I lived, so I would often go up to his place on the weekends. I am a bit neat/clean by nature and he’s, well….. not 😉 so the first time I got annoyed with him I told him that if he wanted me to keep coming back on the weekends then he had better : a) clean the damn  house OR b) have a fridge full of food. He typically had neither done when I arrived.

    I said I wasn’t going to spend my weekends cleaning his house or going to the damn grocery store. So…. he did. My threshold for mess is still far lower than his, but he is much improved to what he used to be.

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