(Closed) When will it be about me??

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 18
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367 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@Sunfire:  HAHA now that you said something YES I JUST DID. Kiss hee hee

Post # 19
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2969 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Well if anything you can be happy you actually have a bridal party that seemed excited about your day. As long as FH only has eyes for you, you won’t care who else is looking! You’ll be the radiant bride and everyone will know it!

Post # 20
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

 

“For example, the other day I had a Bridesmaid or Best Man tell me that she wants to make sure her Fiance gets a good seat at the ceremony because he is so excited to see her walk down the isle.”

Why is he excited about that?  It’s not like it’s their wedding.  That’s totally stupid.  

Post # 21
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367 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@Legallyblondiebride:  awww YOU WILL make a beautiful bride. Sometimes if others already think your beautiful they forget you need to hear it ESPECIALY when you are a bride to be!  I totally relate!  I had many….to many on the bee because I felt neglected as a bride or not like one because no attention was on me!  YOU’RE not alone. 

Post # 23
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367 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@Legallyblondiebride:  EVERY bride deserve a few of those during planning. Laughing My entire reason for coming to the bee was the face I needing one. haha

Post # 24
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

@Legallyblondiebride:  If they are really your friends, then you should be comfortable enough to tell them that you’ve been feeling down, because you would like more help on certain things, and you are a little upset that people haven’t been offering more assistance.  Maybe let them know that you’re emotional, and that you hoped for more compliments and excitement.  These people are your friends. Open up to them.  But you don’t have to belittle their feelings or concerns to do so. 

Post # 25
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1227 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Aww I would interpret all this as a compliment that your friends and fam are excited about your wedding! It’s nice that they care about it, lots of brides on here feeling like no one cares, but sounds like you have some girls in your life who want your wedding to be an amazing day:)

Post # 26
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7528 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Legallyblondiebride:  YOU ARE GOING TO BE A BEAUTIFUL BRIDE!!!!   Girl hug!!

Post # 27
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7528 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Otulyssa:    Kiss  Back at ya!  Also we’re two NC girls, haha!

Post # 28
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541 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Legallyblondiebride:  You are going to be a beautiful bride! 

 

Guess what.. no one has ever told me I’m going to be a beautiful bride either.. I hear it during everyone elses wedding, But mum is the word around me (along with this I am trying to get into vet school and no one has ever said I’ll make a great vet.. hmmm maybe they are right.. anyways.)

 

I feel you though.. I do.. Forget about them, it is about you, and do something for yourself. And if you need to vent or commiserate I am here. 

Post # 29
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367 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@Sunfire:  Goooooooooooooo NC Blondes. ๐Ÿ™‚  HAHA we rule! 

 

PO: Can’t wait till after your wedding photos. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 30
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1098 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Legallyblondiebride:  I have been following your posts. Please have only like 2-3 pictures of your BMs taken and then the rest of you and your husband!!!

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