(Closed) When would/did you announce pregnancy?

posted 6 years ago in Babies
  • poll: When would you announce your pregnancy?
    Only family, until 12+ weeks along, then tell everyone : (35 votes)
    37 %
    Only family, until 16+ weeks along, then tell everyone : (14 votes)
    15 %
    We would not tell anyone, not even family, anything until after 1st Dr's app. : (9 votes)
    10 %
    We would not tell anyone, not even family, anything until at least the end of 1st trimester. : (24 votes)
    26 %
    Right away, I would not wait. : (2 votes)
    2 %
    Other: I will explain below... : (10 votes)
    11 %
  • Post # 3
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    1036 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    we told our parents & his sister & Brother-In-Law right away. we couldnt keep it in ! then word just kinda spread, not really sure when everyone else found out.

    Post # 4
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    1245 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    We told our parents & siblings after the first doctor appointment & everyone else around 19 weeks. 

    ETA: I probably would’ve told family immediately as we did and everyone else around 12 weeks. Ours just didn’t work out that way.

    Post # 5
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    3771 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 1999

    We told everybody at 12 weeks. I had a MC previously and I think my family would have made me even more stressed in the first trimester than I already was.

    Post # 6
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    5118 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    When we get to that point in life, we’ll tell family 8-12 weeks, close friends 12-16, and the world after that. I would just be too worried about people finding out too early, and I know that our family and friends aren’t the greatest at keeping secrets, so I figured telling anyone is telling 3+ extra people :-/

    Post # 7
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    3580 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I would be the opposite. Friends first, and family after it ‘sticks’ safely at the three month mark.  Shoooooot, they would know something was up when I wasn’t having cocktails at our biweekly girls night.

    Post # 8
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    4582 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Our parents & DH’s sister already know (I’m 5 weeks) but they’ve been sworn to secrecy. Everyone else can know after the first trimester.

    Post # 9
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    2305 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2016

    i would want to be able to wait til 12 weeks, but I play roller derby, and as soon as I found out, I would have to stop skating immedietly. My girls would know something is up, and figure it out. But I would tell my parents as soon as we found out, because I can’t keep a secret! I’m the person people don’t tell till 16 weeks, because I literally can not keep a secret. 

    Post # 10
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    26 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    We told pur parents first, but waited until purbfirst healthy scan @ 10 weeks to tell everyone else.

    Post # 11
    Hostess
    3572 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    We’re not there yet, but I would probably tell my few closest friends right away and our families alot later, maybe like 16-20 weeks. I’d honestly want to have my BFFs’ support in the event of a miscarriage. While I’m pretty close with my family, I really don’t think they would be super helpful or comforting if something happened so I’d rather just wait.

    Post # 12
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    1934 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    We told my mom and dad literally 2 hours after taking the test.  I couldn’t wait.  

    I told my work at 11 weeks (I was getting sick)

    We told his family at 12 weeks.

    Everyone else after that.

    Post # 13
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    76 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    We don’t plan to tell anyone (including parents) before the end of the first trimester if i whow to much we’ll tell but after 1st doc appointement at least

    Post # 14
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    2775 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    We told immediate families and a couple of close friends after my pregnancy was confirmed by my doctor at 6.5 weeks.  Everyone else will find out after my 12 week scan.

    Post # 15
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    2808 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    @WillyNilly:  Right there with you. I do wine with my ladies every Friday night and they would know something was up the second I put down the glass and the smokes lol. I will likely have to “call in sick” to wine night for a few weeks just to cover my ass!

    Post # 16
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We would tell my family right away (parents & brother), but we would probably wait to tell FI’s dad, because he has the BIGGEST mouth ever! He can’t keep anything to himself. I would also probably tell FI’s sister right away too, since I know she wouldn’t blab. Everyone else would find out after 12 weeks.

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