(Closed) When you lost your virginity…..

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Was it planned?

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  • Post # 17
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    Sort of. We knew it might happen then, but we agreed there was no pressure. If we felt comfortable, then we knew we’d go for it, and if we didn’t then that was fine.

    Post # 18
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2010 - parent\'s backyard

    Planned to the point that I put myself on the pill beforehand. I was in high school and have no regrets. 

    Post # 19
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2017

    Somewhat planned, I secretly spent the night with my bf and knew we wanted to. It was very regrettable.

    Post # 20
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    Helper bee

    Not planned. I would have been really uncomfortable making anything like a plan for that, it would have made me feel anxious and pressured and basically the opposite of turned on.

    Post # 21
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    Same as you! We knew it would happen soon, but I actually said “NOT on prom ok” because how cliche but guess what. Haha. At 2am and all dressed up nice I didn’t care so much anymore.

    Post # 23
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    Buzzing Beekeeper

    It was planned. No regrets. I feel sex is a natural progression of an adult relationship. I’ve enjoyed it with many people since πŸ˜›

    Post # 24
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Not planned, but not entirely regretted!

    Post # 25
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2016

    100% planned and talked out beforehand to make sure both parties were sure and comfortable. We had also been dating a year when it happened. Looking back, I don’t regret who I lost it to (SO) or what we did, but we were only 16/17 and I almost wish we had waited a little longer.

    Post # 26
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

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    @Brielle:  Yes!! πŸ™‚ Glad to know I’m not alone!

    Post # 27
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @mallo:  I planned it to the point of going on the pill a month before and deciding on an exact date. πŸ™‚ ex and I had been dating for over a year and were in college. no regrets, I felt safe and comfortable and knew I was loved. What can I say, I am not much of a risk taker. πŸ™‚

    Post # 28
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Totally planned.  We had to plan it.  Both of us lived at home with people around all the time, so if we didn’t plan something it wasn’t going to happen.

    We got a hotel room on New Year’s Eve.

    Post # 29
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Not planned…and I do not regret it at all πŸ˜‰

    Post # 30
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

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    @jbyrdy:  You’re definitely not alone! πŸ™‚

    Post # 31
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

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    @208bride:  Yesss prom! Lol. Mine was prom weekend, not actually prom night.

    It was planned in the sense that we talked about it a lot and I got myself on the pill, but not in the sense that we actually picked a specific date. We were both virgins. It was cute, in its way, though once I got more life experience, I learned that my high school boyfriend was totally a bad person. But I don’t regret it–how else do you learn things in life?

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