(Closed) When you lost your virginity…..

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Was it planned?

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  • Post # 47
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    Honey bee

    Planned in a way. We had been dating for just over 2 years and had conversations leading up to it. It was with my current DH, so I have no regrets about it.

    Post # 48
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    We didn’t plan it, no. But I lost it to my husband 🙂

    Post # 49
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I thought about it quite a bit, but I sprung it on DH. 😛 Before we were married or even close to getting engaged. It was our first New Year’s together and I just kind of brought it up.

    No regrets, obviously. 😉

    Post # 50
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    Busy bee

    We had been discussing it for quite a while but we didn’t actually plan a specific day. 

    Post # 51
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    Mine was annoying actually. My ex bf pressured me into it pretty much. Meh. I’m not terribly diasppointed. I didn’t put much stock into it. I would have lost it to Fiance if it hadn’t been with ex bf. I am actually kinda glad I had another experience under my belt.

    Post # 52
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    Helper bee

    Yes it was planned, my first love and I had talked about it for a year. Finally we actually went all the way.

    Post # 52
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    It was not planned. Fiance and I had only known each other for about a month before we had sex. We were on our first trip together.

    Post # 53
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2010 - Christmas Tree Farm

    Yes, it was planned. It was our wedding night.

    Post # 54
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    My “first” time was with a guy I had just started hanging out with, not even dating. He was older and definitely pressured me into it and I was not on the pill. I felt so wrong about it the second it started that I made him stop. It was HORRIBLE! Fast forward about 6 months and I met my now Fiance at 16 and was so smitten and so much better off. I was on the pill and he was just so mature and had more experience than me so I now consider it my first time. 

    Post # 55
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

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    mallo:  Secretly planned by me… he knew I was “ready” but he didn’t know I specifically intended for it to happen on that particular occasion (not a special occasion… but a good opportunity anyway.)

    Post # 56
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

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    mallo:  Planned by my Boyfriend or Best Friend not by me (we were 19). I wouold have waited another mnnth but got pressured into it.

    Post # 57
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    Not planned but not regretted either

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