(Closed) when you say no..

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@mrshersch74:  I do this at times when I get upset with him and already expressed my feelings.  I hate when he offers after the fact.  Other than that, we’re pretty straightforward.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I do it with sex too sometimes…he’ll start touching me and I’ll say no while I’m taking my clothes off lol mixed messages? I also do it with food! He’ll say “lets get taco bell” I’ll say no way but really I’m dying for it lol.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012 - Pippin Hill Farm & Vineyards

I’m trying really hard to think of a time when I’ve done this, but I can’t.  I guess we’re just really straightfoward with each other.  No means no and yes means yes with us.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I dont think I have, if he wants sex, I am always good and ready. hehe I wish I would say no to food but dont. hehe 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@mrshersch74:  hahaha food…. yes. Definitely with food. 

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Yeaaah I do this with food too.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’ll say no to food when I mean yes, but that’s just my attempt to practice self-control. 

Honestly, I used to do it a lot in past relationships (with more serious stuff) but I decided to stop being so damn passive-aggressive!  I’ve always told Darling Husband that I’ll never set him up to fail…I know he’s not a mind reader!  As hard as it is sometimes, if he asks say, if I’m mad, I won’t immediately say “no” like I used to.  I suck it up and have it out!  I figure if he’s asking, he wants a truthful answer!

Maybe I’m reading too much into the OP?  LoL…

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Mars62312:  I agree, with anything more serious than food, it would be a disaster. My Fiance is faaar from a mind reader, and it would cause us nothing but trouble if I ever tried to get passive aggressive about anything. 

Post # 14
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

To me its the reverse, I’d be more likely to say yes when I would rather say no !

 

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

We do not do this.  No means no and yes means yes.

We don’t like gAmes and decoding. 

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