- 5 years ago
It’s a little sad that this is my first post and it’s for venting. This was an awful weekend. It was my birthday and during the week I was busy and the days that I was home I spend them in bed with fever. Yeah, fun right? I had no time to clean up the house and saturday morning my parents were to come over to take me to breakfast to celebrate. I hate my parents seeing my mess at home so I ask SO if he could help me out. I never ask him for that. Right now I have no job, I understand that the housekeeping is my responsability even though I’m not very good at it. So when he answered me “I don’t have to demostrate anything, let them see the way we live, it’s our life, our apartment” I was livid. He ended up doing it but he didn’t bother to take a bath or even being nice with my parents afterwards IN MY BIRTHDAY.
Next day, we went visit his mother (very sensitive subject because she doesn’t like me) and spend the day with her. We were in the car with her and started to sound latin music that I love. Some people think that liking that it’s really ghetto or redneck but I have no problem to accept that. I started to sing and he looked at me and said: It really shows your postal code. Where I live, saying that means that you’re poor and uneducated. I made an effort and ignore him, I even laught and answered: “Do you think so? Well, when I finish, I will read Faulkner and Bajtin so I don’t care”. Next thing I know, we are fighting about that I’m always like that when we are with his mother, and he rather to spend time with her without me because I always get upset for everything.
I really don’t understand why it’s that bad asking him to clean up for receving my parents at our home and wanting him being the nice person he always is and in what moment I became in the crazy lady not capable to beehive in front of his mother because I like cheesy latin music. Now that I’m reading it, it may sound ridicoulus, but he is always so sweet that seeing him act like that, surprise me. He is the one who’s calm and easy. I know he’s stressed out at work and money and that’s been bugging him. I guess he can not be perfect all the time. Have you been in this situation, beautiful bees? That suddlenly you find yourselves exploring the dark side of your SO in very akward and inoportune moments?
*Note: English is not my language, so if you find some ortographical or sintactical mistakes, please, feel free to correct me.
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