(Closed) When you see a different yet curious side of your SO

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Bumble Beekeeper

He doesn’t sound like a supportive partner. Even if he’s stressed, you’d think he’d be on his best behavior with your parents. It sounds like the disrespect has been festering, and now he’s gotten around to showing it. I’m sorry you had a less than wonderful birthday. 

Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

He’s disrespectful to you and your parents. And I can’t believe he would put you down like that in front of his own mom. Shitty things happen in life. This is a small bump. Can you imagine what things will be like when you two have to face more than just job loss? 

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Yeah he sounds like a jerk TBH. 

Post # 5
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Busy bee

Im sorry OP, but I agree with the above comments that he has always been like this. You are just now seeing it for whatever reason. I do hope however, that you can figure it out for yourself… Whatever u decide. Best wishes to you both

Post # 6
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Worker bee

Although he may have been having a bad week, I think that making those comments implying that your cultural music is “poor and uneducated” is totally over the line. if you become married, that disrespect could become much worse. Perhaps you could try and discuss this with him. Keep alert to any other comments along those lines too.

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

I am sorry OP but it doesn’t sound like he is being very nice to you at all!

Post # 9
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Sugar bee

I take it your first language is Spanish? If so, if he ever puts down your music/culture/background, start talking to him in Spanish.  If he doesn’t  understand much of it (as I suppose is the case), ask him: Who’s the most “cultured”? You know two languages; does he?

Nunca permitas que desprecie tu cultura. 

Post # 10
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Worker bee

You are welcome. I’m glad you were able to talk to him. Hope this week is better than the last!

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