(Closed) When you see posts about proposals/rings by men, do you think. . .

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: When you see ring/proposal posts by guys, do you wonder if it's YOUR SO posting?
    YES! Every time : (3 votes)
    3 %
    Maybe sometimes, oh dear : (11 votes)
    9 %
    No, but now I will! : (9 votes)
    8 %
    No, what a silly idea : (86 votes)
    74 %
    Other, do tell! : (7 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1583 posts
    Bumble bee

    Honestly my SO is too machismo to come on here. If he needed advice hed ask friends or coworkers or even his sister. When I see men on here I think they might be gay or sorta feminin

    Post # 4
    Member
    233 posts
    Helper bee

    Hahah I almost made this thread! I just read a post and had the thought, “What if that’s my guy?!”

    But then I talk myself down. He’s probably someone else’s awesome guy taking initiative and being awesome and asking awesome questions and taking awesome advice and making awesome plans and oh my god, I want to make awesome plans ๐Ÿ™

    I feel like my SO wouldn’t post on here because he knows I come on here, and I feel like he would try to be sneaky. Plus I haven’t seen any awesome guy posts with usernames that would make sense. … unless he’s being super secret like that?!?! Hmmm.

     

    I’m sure a lot of people take holiday trips, though. sigh.

    Post # 5
    Hostess
    2999 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    Not a chance…he knows I find out every move he makes Wink

    Post # 6
    Member
    562 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @subtlebee:  sorry but what?  So if a man is on here you think he’s either gay or a bit feminine?  Because he is taking an interest in something traditionalily “female”, he could be gay!?  What about a woman on here who does the proposing?  Are they butch and lesbians because they are taking a traditionally male role?!  Interested to know more…

    Post # 7
    Member
    1583 posts
    Bumble bee

    @anahappilyeverafter:  meh, it’s what I think. I also don’t care if they are or arent gay/feminin.It is just my honest response when I see a guy on here.

    Also, I do think a woman proposing is masculine in the traditional sense. Not that that stopped me. I’m all about bucking tradition.

     

    Post # 8
    Member
    562 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @subtleb  Gotcha.  I just wasn’t aware my gender role defined my sexuality.  

    Post # 9
    Member
    6210 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

    LOL I never thought that. I don’t think my Fiance would ever come on here

    Post # 11
    Member
    50 posts
    Worker bee

    My SO??? On The Bee??? NEVER!!! HAHA!!!

    Post # 12
    Member
    309 posts
    Helper bee

    My SO is an avid researcher so I could definitely see him posting in “proposals” or “rings” for ideas or coconfirmation.

     

    then my next thought is “oh no!! What He sees my posts?!” Haha

    Post # 13
    Member
    482 posts
    Helper bee

    i have thought that a couple of times, almost hoping. but being realistic thats not my guys style.

     

    Post # 14
    Member
    50 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @anahappilyeverafter:  I think its soooo cute when guys post on here asking for help/advice with proposals or ring ideas

    Post # 15
    Member
    1798 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    @moleskinlover:  me too! They normally have really sweet plans and I think it’s so nice that they are trying so hard ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 16
    Member
    50 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @msfahrenheit:  I know ๐Ÿ™‚ they seem so earnest and nervous, it makes me giggle to think of my Fiance like that before his proposal

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