(Closed) When you start feeling nervous about getting married?

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
115 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I am less than 2 months away and I am not at all nervous. It sounds like you are in the “lull” period where everything major is planned and you cannot do much more until you are 2-3 months out. I also felt like my wedding seemed so far away at one point but now it seems like the days are clicking away quickly.

Post # 4
62 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 2014 - Silverthorne Town Pavilion

I am getting married in exactly two weeks and I just now started to get nervous!  I have a lot oflast minute crap going on.  Taking a stepback through the whole process and realizing that at the end of the day all that matters is my dress is awesome, he will look like a stud, and I get to marry my best friend. :). Don’t be worried about when you “should” get nervous.  Just be excited!

Post # 5
1231 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@gpiglet:  Yeah, you still have a long ways to go but it will be here before you know it! I get nervous every once in a while. Within the last 2 or 3 months it is happening more and more. We are a little over a month away and I go from stress to nervous to happy and excited!

You may not even feel nervous at all 🙂 Some brides don’t!

Post # 6
9575 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

10-15 minutes before I walked down the aisle.

Post # 8
7651 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@gpiglet:  I didn’t get nervous until the night before. Everything was over, but I realized I forgot panties for the day of and my Maid/Matron of Honor had to drive me to Walmart, and as I was walking down the hotel steps, I had a mini-moment of “omg, can I be with one person for the rest of my life?” Luckily I have a wonderful BFF/MOH because she told me I was just freaking out because I didn’t have panties, lol.

The only other time I had it was about 10 minutes before the aisle walk because I didn’t want to fall, and I knew all eyes were on me.

Post # 9
1710 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I only got nervous just before I walked down the aisle. But I was stressed the last 2 weeks before the wedding.


Post # 10
3265 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

I have just under 3 weeks left to go and I’m still not nervous.

Post # 12
12248 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I didn’t get nervous until we were in line, and the processional music started playing!

Post # 13
205 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I have about 6 weeks until my wedding and I still feel like it’s so far away. And then I look at a calendar and am reminded that it’s actually pretty close. I’m at that point where I’m done with all the planning…I just want to the day to come already! The only time I get nervous is when I think about walking down the aisle and standing in front of all our guests. I’m an introverted person and the idea of being in the spotlight like that makes my stomach turn a little bit. But the overall excitment I have for the wedding completely outweighs any of the negative anxiety. 

Post # 14
3026 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

I’m totally nervous.

I’ve been single-and-proud for 20 years. Being with one man for the rest of my life? Totally wack! Awesome, but… WACK! Yes, I’m nervous.

Post # 15
52 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Congrats! 8 months is close! It will go fast – but in a good way! 🙂


We had ~6 months from “Will you?” to “I do.” Can’t say that I ever felt nervous, though. Sometimes, even now being married, it doesn’t seem like the ‘real deal’ like we’re actually married…it just seems right. 🙂

Post # 16
3402 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I never felt nervous.

I knew I was marrying the one God intended for me, and I have no doubt that he will be the man standing next to me in 50yrs+. Everyday I love him more, and with more depth.

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