(Closed) Where are your/your FI’s parents sitting?

posted 8 years ago in Reception
  • poll: Where are the parents sitting?
    With their friends/their invited guests : (9 votes)
    25 %
    With their side of the family : (16 votes)
    44 %
    At a special parents' table : (3 votes)
    8 %
    At the head table/with Bride and Groom : (4 votes)
    11 %
    We aren't reserving seats, even for parents/family : (3 votes)
    8 %
    Other : (1 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2012

    with us- parents and us are sitting together

    Post # 4
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    We will have a 2 person sweetheart table.  My parents will be seated at their own large table to my left and his to his right.

    Post # 5
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    With their friends and family – I hope! We’ll have two languages at the wedding and not enough people speak both.

    Post # 6
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Ours were split – my parent’s wanted to sit with their friends and his wanted to sit with family.

    Post # 7
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2012

    is no one else sitting with their parents?

    Post # 10
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: June 2009

    Mine was the same as FutureKMM – my mom sat with her friends who happened to be the flowergirl’s family, and his parents sat with their family/grandparents.

    Post # 11
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    We’re having a sweetheart table. We could only get 8 person tables maximum, and FH & I did not want to have to choose whose parents/ family to sit with (mine or his), so we decided to sit alone. Makes it easier on us.

    So my parents are sitting with my sister, her Boyfriend or Best Friend, my brother, my uncle and my other aunt and uncle and I’ll have another table full of family. FH’s mom is sitting with her family/ invited guests (I think– still figuring that out, depending on who is actually attending on that side). We have a small guestlist, at 45 maximum people.

     

    Post # 12
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    I **think** that we are going to seat my parents with FI’s mom and step dad (and maybe sister) and maybe my grandma and our officiant (my aunt) and husband. And then FI’s dad/step mom with their family. 

    This is hard for us because FI’s dad and mom CANNOT sit at the same table, but FI’s mom will not have any family there (we didn’t invite her side of the family at hers and FI’s request) so I don’t want her to be with some random table ya know!

    Post # 14
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Ooh I’ve been wondering about this myself – when I asked my parents, my mom exclaimed “I want to sit with my friends!!” and I always thought it was etiquette that all the parents would sit together. They’ve never met, and I’m not sure if it would be more comfortable to sit with their own families/friends. At least I know other people are doing this!

    Post # 15
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2012

    lol i’m still waiting for a buddy in my category.

    Post # 16
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    Busy bee

    We will have a sweetheart table too. The plan is to have my mom to host a table to our right and his mom to host a table to our left. Their tables will mostly be respective family anyway. There is a big age difference between our parents.

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