- 8 years ago
- Wedding: October 2014 - Ranch
My Bf was acting secretive, and all of a sudden he was very broke and we couldn’t go out every weekend as we alwasys did. I asked him where all the money was going and he said work was just bad. That was okay with me. I had no problem with staying in with him and watch movies and have pizza.
Last month we had an argument and some feelings were hurt (mine lol). He decided to tell me something he knew would make me happy. He said work WASN’T bad. (I KNEW it!) He said the money was going into “my account” as it is now known as lol He confessed how much money he had in there so far and my jaw dropped!! I knew he was planning something, I just didn’t how ahead of the game he was already!
Anyways, he is going back to school this September so I told him it wouldn’t hurt to apply for FAFSA. We never know, he might qualify for something. I was filling it out for him this morning and one of the questions was WHAT ARE YOUR CURRENT ASSETS INCLUDING CASH, SAVINGS, AND CHECKINGS? So I call him:
Me: Babe, how much money do you have including cash, savings, and checkings?
Boyfriend or Best Friend:..*silence*…well…cash, I have about $XXX…
Me: Uhu? and the rest? I need everything.
Boyfriend or Best Friend:…uummmm…..well, in savings…now, I have zero.
ZERO? It took him that long to count and come up with zero? I wanted to jump and scream! but I remained very calm. I acted as if I didn’t connect the dots and proceeded to say:
Me: Okay. And in checkings?
hahaha..yup I remained calm. We hung up, and like three seconds later he called and said,”You know huh?” I said, “What? That you are taking me to the snow??” He’s been telling me he has a surprise for me and I figured out he was taking me to the snow. He said…”Aw you suck. Well make sure you buy warm clothes.” And we hung up. I’m sure it’s killing him right this instant not knowing if I put two and two together. Well, this got long! Just needed to share and can’t tell anyone else!