Post # 106
I agree if for the reason is to warn about STI and yeah, she’s gonna have to leave him because 100% this will cause a s%&* storm in her relationship and her FH’s relationship. I’m not saying what happened wasn’t super shady, but how she reacts to things he tells her, no matter what it is, will dictate what he tells her in the future. If she flies off the handle every time he tells her something she won’t like, even if he’s admitting to screwing up, he just won’t tell her.
I almost left my FH early on in the relationship because he was projecting the way his ex wife handled situations on to me and assuming I would react the same way and fly off the handle like she did. I’m not talking about cheating or anything but there have been a few things that I found out that he didn’t tell me and I got mad but not at what I found out, mad that he didn’t tell me. He trusts now that he can tell me things and I won’t overreact and we can talk about things. Same for me with him. Our communication isn’t perfect but we can work thorugh things better now. I would expect he would tell me about a friend cheating, etc but then what I do with the info will dictate his trust in me.
Post # 107
and now just like her first post about this she’s going to ghost everyone. not sure what you’re looking for OP- you obviously don’t like what you hear so why keep bringing this shit up?
Post # 108
honestly, I thought her SO was in his early 20s, fresh out of college frat bro, when she first posted. Then to hear that he’s a grown ass 40 year man shocked me- he’s permanently set in his ways.
Post # 109
This all sounds very bad but the truth is, it is likely all lies and there’s probably more stuff they did that’s being hidden. I’d run far, far away and find someone that respects you and is in line with your beliefs. Good luck to you.
Post # 110
Hmmm men in their 40s with prostitutes I’m betting not much over 16y.o/close to. Wrong on so many levels.
Post # 111
Wow, this thread is filled with such wise advice. I hope that it helps OP but also the many readers of it who are in similar situations.