- 3 years ago
- Wedding: November 2018
I don’t like it when guys in their cars cat call at me… but I prefer it to when I’m on a train platform at night, or at a gas station, or walking home from the grocery store and it suddenly becomes “lets compliment the pretty girl and follow her down the road”
WTF GET AWAY FROM ME
The next time someone tells me to smile, i’m going to tell them the voices don’t want me to. I have RBF, I am a busy woman, I don’t have time to constantly smile for your benefit, sorry.
NOW I will say, I have been approached before (by attractive, and unattractive men) and paid a genuine compliment. Usually in a very public non threatening setting like at a coffee shop, or the mall, or what have you. In those cases I take the compliment willingly, smile and say thank you, because they’ve approached me nicely, somewhere safe, said something nice, and then WALKED AWAY. That’s an Ego Boost of kindness I can get behind.
Or when a gay guy compliments my shoes. day. made.