(Closed) where do we go from here?

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
6564 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

You leave him. It sounds like he won’t change…

Post # 3
2253 posts
Buzzing bee

“We” don’t go anywhere. You end the relationship and move on.

He has already cheated. You know that he’s completely willing and ready to cheat on you with everyone from his exes to random people he meets on the internet. He has shown you what kind of husband he’ll be.

Do you like feeling this way? Do you like having a fiancé that the word “cheater” accurately describes? Do you want to have a husband who could give you an STD that he got from some woman he met on craig’s list? I don’t think you do.  

Leave him. Move on. There are better men out there; men who won’t cheat on you. 

Post # 4
1221 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Unfortunately, he’s a cheater. If you don’t want to be with a cheater I think you’ve got to move on.

Post # 5
7642 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

cgrubb1:  I agree with previous postes. He’s cheated in the past and he’s cheating on you now. He will never change. You need to dump him.

Post # 6
454 posts
Helper bee

As much as you wish you could, you can’t expect him to change.  Unless you’re comfortable with wondering for the rest of your life whether or not he’s cheating on you, you’d be smart to ditch him. :/

Post # 7
631 posts
Busy bee


There is no ‘fixing’ this.

Leave him, grieve the death of the relationship you thought you had, the loss of who you thought he was, and move forward.


Post # 8
2332 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Im sorry but I see nowhere to go except leaving him and finding someone who will treat you right

Post # 9
965 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I am so sorry…. I remmeber reading either this story or a very similar story on the bee a few months ago, so I don’t know if this is a continuation.  I would run for the hills and count it a blessing that this has all been revealed.  He has someting going on and he needs to work through whatever that is and marriage won’t fix it.  I think you will be more hurt in the long run.  Marriage is serious. 


Post # 10
112 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

YOU go on and heal your hurt, move on and make a happier life with someone who you can trust.

HE will not change no matter what.

Post # 11
1000 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

Sorry to hear this. What a sucky situation to be in. You need to leave him though, he won’t change and you need to find value in yourself, without someone like that bringing you down.

Post # 12
9595 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

ummm you dump him? You’d be a FOOL to marry him. He WILL cheat. You’re practically giving him permission if you stay with him after knowing all this. 

Post # 13
152 posts
Blushing bee

Don’t marry him obviously – dump him and find a man that will be with you and only you!

Post # 14
4524 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

You regret that his kids are suffering because of their scumbag dad, but you realize you can’t stay with him, and move on.

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