(Closed) Where do you put your dog while you and SO do the deed?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Where does your dog stay while you're having "alone time" with SO?
    In a crate in another room : (7 votes)
    6 %
    In a crate in the same room : (3 votes)
    3 %
    Running free in another room : (48 votes)
    42 %
    Running free in the same room : (51 votes)
    44 %
    Other : (6 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
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    4676 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    We have a cat but we just let him run free.  If he’s getting in the way he gets kicked out of the room though… 

    Post # 4
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    3136 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2018

    i can’t offer much insight. my dog sleeps in our bed, but as soon as anything starts he gets down. his bed in kept in the hallway bc while we’re having sex he HUMPS HIS BED. i can tune it out, but my SO insisted the bed be moved out of the room. yes, it’s weird. but, if we try shutting the door he cries and scratches and makes a ruckus.

     

     

    Post # 5
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    4693 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Well we have a cat, not a dog, but we just lock him out of the bedroom for awhile.  Sometimes he sits outside the door and meows, but most of the time he takes the hint and just hangs out in the other room.

    Post # 6
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    277 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    We have cat, and if we let him run free in the bedroom he thinks it’s bedtime and tries to get in bed with us. He has jumped up on my husbands back before or tried to crawl in between us. Embarassed If we close the door to lock him out he cries and scratches at it. Darling Husband calls him little furry cock blocker! 

    Post # 7
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    8882 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    We have cats and we just close the door πŸ™‚

    Post # 8
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    487 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    My dog actually sleeps on my head at the top of my pillow.  She can now sense when ‘something is up’ and jumps down before anything happens.  She can just tell the mood.  When she was a puppy though, she’d just continue to sleep on the pillow until I finally picked her up and put her on the floor.  Boy that was awkward.  I’d open my eyes and she’d just be staring at me 3 inches from my face.  My dog never misses an opportunity to make out with a man, so once she even got in between us and gave him a kiss.  We stopped that pretty quick.  A threesome with my dog isn’t what I call a dream of mine πŸ™‚

     

    Post # 9
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    2825 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Our dog has his “bedroom” that we put him in when we go to bed or leave the house, so even if we are just going to have a quicky in the afternoon he goes into his room… It freaks me out to have him there, he’s like our kid.

    Our poor kitty on the other hand, he loves to cuddle in bed with me at night and if Fiance starts making any moves the cat hides in the living room until we’re done and I come get him (he’s like a teddy bear, I can’t sleep without him.)… It’s like he’s mortified.

    That said, in college I took in a stray cat for a few weeks (until I found him a new permanent home, I wasn’t allowed to have cats), and he was the cuddliest little thing ever (he was probably only 6 months old) and my boyfriend at the time came to stay the weekend and the cat wouldn’t get of the bed (the cat was basically cuddled at my side) while we were doing it… The cat didn’t care, it was the strangest thing ever and I almost pushed him off the bed because it was freaking me out so badly. lol

    Post # 10
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @ananeele:  lol this cracks me up!!  that is something my dog would do, he does that just when Fiance and I are cuddling on the couch!

    Post # 11
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    2854 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    @mamadingdong: 

    @ananeele:  

    ^^ These made me lol. πŸ™‚

     

    We usually just kick ours off the bed and don’t really worry about it. Our rescued pup has separation anxiety, so we can’t really put him out of the room or he’ll mark on the walls. :  The other one will just wander to wherever he wants to sleep. They’re old guys, so they don’t try to jump on the bed anymore.

    Post # 13
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    2638 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2006

    Our dog seems to know to leave the room. The cat on the other hand we have to physically remove from her semi-permanent cozy on the bed.

    Post # 14
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    2214 posts
    Buzzing bee

    My dog sleeps in bed with us.  Usually he just keeps sleeping at the end of the bed when we have sex. lol.  Sometimes he gets in the way, and I’ll put him on the floor, but usually he leaves us alone and we leave him alone. 

    Post # 15
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    2693 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2008

    Our dog has his big dog bed in our room.  He’s a lab so he always has to be near us.  If we’re in our bedroom, so is he.  But he’s super lazy and is asleep within seconds of laying down in his bed.  He never seems bothered or pays us any attention.  If he’s on the bed and we start messing around, he usually gets down.  I figure he doesn’t know what’s going on, and if he does…dogs aren’t judgemental anyway πŸ™‚

    I will share one thing though: he does sometimes lay on the floor on either side of the bed when we first get into our room.  Once he was laying on the floor and Fiance had me…hmm, how can I say this…bending over onto our bed.  I was all caught up in the moment and when we finally moved from our standing (bending) position to get fully onto the bed, I realized I had been STANDING ON THE TIP OF HIS TAIL!! As soon as I picked up my foot he jumped up and left the room. I felt so bad.  All I could think was how I had trapped him there (which, in reality, I probably hadn’t) while we were doing that and I was standing on his tail.  We laughed for days about what was going through his head: “okay, cooper.  Just breathe.  Go to your happy place.  It won’t last forever”

    Post # 16
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    220 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    If we have “play time” at bedtime, we just let them sleep on their beds on the floor of the bedroom while we play.

    If it’s any other time, we run upstairs and close the door before they get inside. They always sit outside the door usually chewing the carpet πŸ™ until we’re finished

     

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