(Closed) Where is my fun?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1059 posts
Bumble bee

@keshifflett:  Your personality sounds like mine. Except I don’t do the procrastinator part. I hope you have fun soon – I don’t think I could handle planning a wedding because I know I would go crazy on wanting everything to be perfect, so I’m more than happy to elope. You’re a better woman than I!

Post # 4
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3585 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2000

@keshifflett:  “I want it done and I want it done right” with an extravaganza for 200 people doesn’t sound like much fun to me at all. Hope you can relax your vision a little to enjoy the day.

Perhaps start with the premise: not everything is important, most guests won’t notice most things. Only the wedding obsessed women your age will fuss over details. You know how you fuss over the details of other wedding of 20 years old? Well–most people don’t

So, what is REALLY important to you? What are the elements that would make them “right?”

The rest of it, either completly eliminate them from your wedding or hire competant profssionals to carry them out and you yourself–forgetaboutit.

Post # 5
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986 posts
Busy bee

Keep putting your heart into it and it will show – regardless of age! Your age doesn’t matter, it’s the love and the vows and the big day with family and friends. That’s what’s important. 

And totally understand on the OCD and over achieving – just keep working 😉

Post # 6
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3357 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Perfect does not exist. As soon as you accept this, planning will be less stressful 🙂

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