(Closed) Where should we stay on our wedding night?

posted 6 years ago in Logistics
Post # 2
2800 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - St Peter\'s Church, East Maitland, and Bella Vista, Newcastle

I think I’d stay in a hotel on the first night (maybe not the same one as your guests though) and go home for the second night before you head off on honeymoon.

Post # 3
9519 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Stay in a hotel. It is a very special night that you will always remember. Years from now you will remember the nights, not the cost. 

Post # 4
106 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

I would go home. neither of you have been in that room and it will be a first for you both as husband and wife in your home 🙂

Post # 5
21 posts

I’d stay in the hotel for the first night. We’re doing that and I doubt you will even notice your family is there if you’re reception is in the evening anyway. Then in the morning get room service if you can. For the 2nd night, I would either stay at your house, as this will make that night another big night as it will be your first in the house master together, or if you are flying out on the Monday and live far away from the airport, as we are, stay somewhere near the city/airport that night to get away from everyone but not having to spend too much. 

Post # 6
1119 posts
Bumble bee

I would go home, even more so because it will be special since it will be your first night staying in the same bed in your home.

We have a similar situation…get married on a Sat, no accomodation at wedding venue, expensive hotels nearby (that some family are staying in) but our house is only 10 mins from the venue – so we are going home and staying together in our room (where we have slept together for 5 years lol!)

We are also going on honeymoon the Monday so an extra night at home (with our cats) before we go feels like a nice thing!


Post # 7
151 posts
Blushing bee

I’d stay in a hotel, not necessarily the same one with all the other guests, but definitely a hotel. My Aunt stayed in the hotel with us guests at her wedding, and the morning after, we all went to get breakfast. It was like one big family brunch since we took up most of the tables there. I’ve always liked that idea. They moved to a different hotel that day though (one closer to the airport so they could catch their early morning flight).

Post # 8
7881 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I would go home. 20 minutes is not that far away to travel, and as you said, there will be a lot of firsts your first night at home. You’re going on your honeymoon shortly afterwards anyway, so there will still be post-wedding excitement in the air. 

Post # 9
634 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’d stay in a different hotel for the wedding night – if you can afford it, go for a suite! You don’t need to see your wedding guests the next morning when you’re checking out. Then stay at home the night before you leave for your honeymoon.

Post # 10
913 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015 - The Victorian

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SimTeam:  This is what I’m doing: We’re getting married on a Friday. I am getting a suite at the hotel and  checking in on Thursday before our rehearsal, staying there with my man of honor and maybe another bridesmaid, getting ready with everyone there that morning so we can start getting people ready (we can’t be in the venue until 2 hours prior and I have 8 ladies that want hair and makeup). Then housekeeping will come in and wash away my bahelorette sins and all my/our stuff is there for our wedding night. Even though we’re about a 10 minute ride from our house, I want us to be able to relax with just the 2 of us(no dogs, no family, even though we love them both). We’ll also do a brunch nearby and stay in our house the day and night before we leave for our honeymoon on Monday.

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