(Closed) Where the heck is Upstatecait??

posted 8 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 272
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

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@MrsFuzzyFace:  +1 im no angel but i sometimes thought she crossed a line

Post # 273
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I don’t think I’ve ever been flagged, and I sure as hell have never been sent a PM.

Well, I did once, many moons ago,

BY TUNACUPCAKES!

Where is that girl?!

She left me. ๐Ÿ™

And that just hurts my feelings.

Post # 274
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

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@MrsFuzzyFace:   +1. Thanks for being brave enough to be the first one to come out and say it. I understand that she was well liked and sometimes had good honest advice, but in many cases she came off very mean and I’ve seen threads where she would bully other users who disagreed with her. My favorite thing about Weddingbee is the supportive community and I always appreciate the bees who can be both kind and honest.

Post # 275
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

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@Torrid:  Where is that girl? Her name made my stomach turn, but she was a pleasant part in the community here.

Post # 276
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I always liked Cait, and I will miss her being on Weddingbee.

I liked that she never sugarcoated stuff and wasn’t afraid to speak her mind. I think some people are just too sensitive to appreciate that.

Post # 277
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 1993

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@MrsFuzzyFace:  I have to ask, but what good is changing your username but using the same avatar and releasing the very personal and obviously you details shortly thereafter?  Doesn’t exactly lead to anonymity, you know?

Post # 278
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

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@StuporDuck:  I have no idea what happened to her. She just disappeared. I don’t know if she got engaged, if they broke up, or what. I know she was list keeper for one list…then…she disappeared.

๐Ÿ™

Post # 279
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Honey bee

This is sad ๐Ÿ™

Post # 280
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

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@MrsFuzzyFace:  Really? I’m actually shocked, I have always enjoyed both UpstateCait’s posts and KayElle’s, but if you had to ask me who was more harsh, I probably would have said KatyElle! Just goes to show perception is vastly different from person to person.

Every time I see this thread get bumped up again it bums me out ๐Ÿ™

Post # 281
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2004

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@Blanche:  I used a different avatar.  My old avatar was my ering and wedding band.  It became very obvious that I was being followed from thread to thread, so I figured that a different name and avatar would make me different enough that people harassing me would be thrown off.

Post # 282
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

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@ChemistryBride:  lol, I feel the same way!  But both of them have such high post counts that I find it hard to believe that someone of that level would be following people around.  Cait was commenting all over the place!  Almost all of us could claim that she was stalking us  ;o)

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@MrsFuzzyFace:  Um, I just want to suggest that if you really want anonymity, maybe changing the rest of your stats in your profile?  I pretty much remember when you changed your name and seeing your new name in a thread and thinking “oh, hey, Burris changed her name.”  I know if it occurred to me that easily, then probably a lot of people realized it pretty easily.  Just a suggestion though.  *shrug*

Post # 283
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

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@MrsFuzzyFace:  you kept the same wedding date and location. And pretty quickly posted pictures of yourself/children and details that were very specific to you. I didn’t even realize at first that you had changed your name – I just thought you made an avatar change, because I still recognized your posting style. 

Post # 284
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Bee Keeper

Whatever happened to DeathbyDesign? I liked her and she was from the same province as me. It no longer says member under her name either…..

Post # 285
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2004

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@MadameTussaud:  My plan worked well enough.  As soon as I changed my name, I stopped getting harassed.  I was being harassed by two bees, one was sending vile and hateful PMs and got banned for it, and the other was UpstateCait, who recently got banned.  She stopped and that is all I wanted, so I suppose the name change did it’s job.

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