(Closed) Where the heck is Upstatecait??

posted 8 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 47
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9916 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

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@ohmybears48:  Who confirmed it?  

 

That seems like a poor decision on the part of the moderators to me.  There are other posters who offend people on a regular basis who post and post and post…

Post # 48
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758 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

What?! This is a shame. 😐

Post # 49
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248 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Awww bummer, she was one of my favorite regular posters to follow :/

Post # 50
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6255 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

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@ohmybears48:  That’s ridiculous. I hate that she was banned. I liked her.

Post # 52
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2401 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Sorry, not trying to stir pots here. Moderation is between the person and the mods that make the decisions. 

Post # 53
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1733 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

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@ohmybears48:  Thats fair I am just baffled she was always helpful and I never found her to be snarky!

Post # 54
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

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@peachacid:  Ive asked and was told that they can’t reveal another members membership status. I left it alone, can’t change anything.

Post # 55
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45 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2013

This is very disappointing.  I have been lurking for a year or so and I always enjoyed reading her posts.

Post # 56
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3637 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I’m really sad about this too! I didn’t always agree with her but I always liked reading her posts. 

 

It almost seems like warnings should be taken off every year or every X amount of posts. I can understand how, especially with some of the hotter topics, you can say something which you regret and are warned. But if you then write 2,000 posts (all fine) your warming should be wiped or something. Work it off with community service, haha! It would certainly be motivation to post more which can’t be a bad thing.

Post # 57
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2695 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

WTF?

Ugh. So pissed at this!

Post # 59
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1433 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012 - Historic Lougheed House

I really liked Cait too!  I’m sad to see her go, but the site does have rules in place… and I think the moderation team wouldn’t ban her unless it was justified. 

I hope she’s doing okay!

Post # 60
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533 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Why exactly do people get banned? What do they consider “snarky” opposed to just opinionated? How many members get banned? Hmm. This is something I never thought of. I hope UpstateCait is doing okay and knows how many people are thinking of her.

Post # 61
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7605 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I’m surprised it took this long for this thread to happen.  I miss her, too.

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