- 4 years ago
Hi Bee’s! I’ve followed the boards for years but this is my first post. I was engaged in the past and set to be married in 2011, however right before my wedding day I discoverd my Fiance had devloped a relationship with a co-worker, needless to say we called off the wedding. Since then I have dated 3 other guys for about 6 months each, and went on random dates in between.
My problem is I live in a small town surrounded by 3 other small towns. I work with/in the public in these 4 towns on a daily basis. Most of the guys in the area I live in are either in a serious relationship, related/friends with 1 of the 4 guys I have already dated, or I’m just not interested in them. The dating pool is soooo small where I live.
The good new is I live about 35 to 40 minutes outside of a MAJOR city, I am more than happy to travel to this city to meet new people and would perfer this, however my friends are normally not willing to go out with me in the larger city due to the commute and most of them have kids and are married (I don’t blame them at all, I would probably be the same way). So what activies could I do myself where I don’t look like a weirdo but still meet normal nice guys? I am a very social and active person, I love sports and I am willing to try most new things, so what are your suggestions? Did you meet your SO/FI/Hubby when you were out alone? What are your fun ideas for meeting new guys?
Also, as far as online dating, I am completelty open to this. I just would not want anyone in the town(s) I live/work in to know about it since I work in the public so much. I feel it would be a distraction.