(Closed) Where to Wed?

posted 9 years ago in Venue
  • poll: should I get married in Disney, or in my hometown?
    marry in Disney- it's your day, don't worry about others : (5 votes)
    56 %
    marry in your hometown- it's easiest on everyone : (4 votes)
    44 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1428 posts
    Bumble bee

    Have your fairytale wedding. You only get to do it once, do what makes you & your Fiance happy. Your loved ones will find a way to be there with you.

    Post # 4
    Member
    7 posts
    Newbee

    My gut reaction is say do what you want to do, but from personal experience I’d say do the wedding in your hometown and your honeymoon or first anniversary in Disney (maybe do a "vow renewal" ceremony there).  

    While it is your wedding, you will have to hear about it if its totally against what your family wants.  Trust me.  Those aren’t fun fights – we ended up just giving in and having the big wedding that my mom wants just to get some peace. 

    Post # 5
    Member
    70 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2009

    If you really want to go to Disney I say do it- but you need to be prepared and ok with the fact that some people won’t be able to attend.  Two of my siblings did destination weddings and while they were so much fun they were also VERY expensive and some important people couldn’t make it.  But if you are ok with that than go for it!

    Post # 6
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    3331 posts
    Sugar bee

    I say if go for your dream wedding.  It’s your wedding, if you can swing it, you should do what makes you and your fiance happy.  You can always have a party/reception for your friends and family who can’t make it to Disney to celebrate with you there. 

    Post # 7
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    792 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2009

    Maybe you should talk to your family first and see if they think they could afford it. If they say they can’t, then you’ll have to make some tough decisions. I personally, wouldn’t want to get married without my family present. My Fiance doesn’t care as much… so he would have a similar mindset as your Fiance. You just need to decide how important it is to you. If you really want them to be with you, and they can’t afford to go to Disney, you may want to consider doing something in your hometown and go to Disney another time. It’s whatever will give you the greatest amount of happiness! I say follow your gut on this one.

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