(Closed) Which decision has been the most difficult for you???

posted 8 years ago in Beehive
  • poll: Which area have you struggled with the most?
    Location of Wedding : (25 votes)
    22 %
    Date of Wedding : (8 votes)
    7 %
    Dress : (27 votes)
    23 %
    Accessoies (shoes, jewelry, etc) : (1 votes)
    1 %
    Bridal Party Members : (4 votes)
    3 %
    Flowers : (6 votes)
    5 %
    Music/Entertainment : (5 votes)
    4 %
    Food/Bev : (8 votes)
    7 %
    Invitations : (7 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 3
    6394 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I was just getting ready to say the centerpieces. I just keep feeling like anything we do isn’t going to be good enough. I think I need to stop watching ‘My Fair Wedding,’ lol.

    Post # 4
    1801 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I struggled mostly with to do or not to do certain things, like chair covers, aisle runners and more.  We did have quite a bit of indecisiveness on our entree selections, so that’s what I actually voted for.

    Post # 5
    11105 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Definetly the location. I wanted and found a beautiful estate with gorgeous gardens with a marquee but I couldn’t sleep at the amount it would cost or the amount of work involved if I tried to save money and do it myself so we then decided on somewhere else. It was hard finding something we liked.

    Post # 7
    5496 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2010

    Definitely the music! Trying to decide which ceremony songs, processional, recessional, first dance and all the dance tunes. That was the most stressful for us!

    Post # 9
    3758 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I said dress because it has been a pain in my back side but the date is also a big problem because I don’t have an exact one yet due to Marine Corp uncertainties.

    Post # 10
    1297 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    You should have an option on that poll as ‘Saying YES to your SO”. I’m only saying this to be funny, because my single sister (boy crazy and huge party animal) tells me the other day :”I can’t believe you stressed out over making a decision on which dress to choose.  If I were you I’d be stressed about saying YES to being with the SAME guy for the rest of my life”

    Post # 11
    5496 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2010

    @Topolino: I don’t know why that was the most difficult part for us. I guess we just had trouble deciding music! But, this thread takes me back to January one Saturday night when my husband and I spent two hours trying to decide which processional song we liked best. (I’m sure he didn’t care as much as I did, but he seemed interested enough! LOL) He would play the songs I liked on the computer and I would hold an imaginery bouquet and walk from our living room to the kitchen to each song. LOL That was one of my favorite planning moments. (Although it was stressful because I really wanted the ‘right’ song) Then for our recessional, we would kiss and he would push the play button to see how we liked the song. We went with U2’s Beautiful Day right as we kissed. 🙂  Have fun selecting!

    Post # 12
    645 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

     the date. I;m not sure if I would like a fall or spring wedding. Fiance doesn’t care.  I love both seasons .

    Post # 13
    536 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I lost sleep over choosing a photographer. 

    Post # 14
    3364 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    For us it was our BUDGET and LOCATION battling it out!
    Luckily we opt’d for the DOUBLE DISCOUNT! 


    But it was worth it because we are getting our dreamy venue and a great DEAL! 

    Best of Luck Bees! 

    Post # 15
    5147 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I voted “nothing’ because I haven’t really struggled between ideas.

    Pretty much everything has been chosen by price, “what is the cheapest I can get that looks decent?”.

    Post # 16
    371 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I’ve been unofficially planning things for months and we have been going back and forth on the date. Now that it’s official (Hooray!), we have to buckle down and pick a date, but our school/work schedules are getting in the way of what we really want.

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