Which dress? Please help me decide :)

posted 3 months ago in Dress
Post # 16
600 posts
Busy bee

The third one,no questions asked! It looks stunning on you. The first one is far too low in the back and the second one not nearly as flattering as the third.

Post # 18
296 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: London

1 or 3. you have such a lovely shape you pull 1 off like many could only dream, but 3 has something really etherial about it. Also depends what fits with the day and what you think you could feel comfy in all day! 

Post # 19
544 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

I like 2 the best. It’s more original than 3 (which also looks lovely though). I personally don’t like 1 from the photos – the back being so low gives the illusion of a long body and short legs to me. 

Post # 20
292 posts
Helper bee

chocobo124 :  2 looks like it was made for you! You look stunning. I find 3 boring and I do love 1 but 2 looks really special on you. I think it’s even more special that your dream dress looks so amazing on you. Good luck choosing bee! 

Post # 21
424 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

Oh, wow, number 3!!

Post # 22
854 posts
Busy bee

Keep us updated, bee! Would love to know what you decide! You can truly pull off anything. 

Post # 24
79 posts
Worker bee

All are beautiful and you can’t go wrong with any of them, but #3 was the most striking to me, especially with the back detail! So stunning.

Post # 25
1041 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2019

I love 3! You also look stunning in 1.

Post # 26
1642 posts
Bumble bee

#2, but lose the sash, or alter it so it doesn’t have the big bow. You might also try tucking in the sleeves to see what it would look like without them.

#1 shows too much skin for my taste – not to mention the price.

#3 is gorgeous, but it seems like you like the body hugging element more.

Addressing the price again: I don’t know what your financial situation is, but spending $5 – $8k on a dress you’ll wear for half a day is foolish to me.



Post # 27
154 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

Crap I love all of these!! I do think 2 is the most unique

Post # 28
9447 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

#3 has the most wow factor IMO.

You’re not going to be standing on a podium at your wedding either, so you have to consider what these will look like with a foot chopped off of them.

Post # 29
8558 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

zl27 :  Couldn’t have said it better.


OP – Dress 3 wins hands down! 

Post # 30
812 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2020

I like Dress #2 the best. It’s the most unique, and the fit is great on you. Bonus points for being the most affordable and needing fewer alterations.

Maybe it’s just because it’s a sample and clipped, but I don’t think the fit of Dress #1 is on point enough for the price. You have a gorgeous slim figure, and this dress just isn’t sitting right in my opinion. 

Dress #3 looks great on you, but again I don’t know if it’s worth the Berta price tag. The illusion bodice does distinguish it from the many a-line silhouettes out there, but I guess I personally don’t love the small appliques. Are they stars? Tiny flowers? To me they are a bit too small and fussy and hard to read. 

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