(Closed) Which man would you marry?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: If you HAD to choose the lesser of the evils, which man would you marry...???

    Man with money but with children and multiple baby mamas

    Man with no children, but no money

  • Post # 3
    2890 posts
    Sugar bee

    No children. Total dealbreaker. You can fix the money situation – not the kids.

    Post # 4
    2587 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2014 - UK

    @Reign14:  Well, there’s nothing to say that the guy with no money will never have money, or that you couldn’t build up some savings together.

    Post # 5
    3823 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    no children and no money. we can build together. 


    Post # 6
    491 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    eh, children is okay, but not with multiple baby mamas thats for sure! lol

    Money can always be made =)

    Post # 7
    963 posts
    Busy bee

    Children are okay, but not with multiple mothers. That screams irresponsibility to me. Money isn’t an issue.

    Post # 8
    11736 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I don’t need a man to have money, I make my own. Would never want to date someone with a baby momma, let alone multiple baby momma’s.  I also wouldn’t consider having multipe children a “glaring fault”.  If the guy with no money had no money because he was a financial idiot with tons of debt, then I’d go the other way. 

    Post # 10
    5373 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Definitely the guy with no children and no money. My Fiance and I started dating in highschool so I’m used to being in a relationship with a student with ‘no money’. We can build savings and a family together. I would not want to deal with baby mama drama aha.

    Post # 11
    1603 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    The thing that make the decision easy for me was the multiple baby mamas. Without that, I would have chosen the first guy.

    Post # 12
    4753 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    if he has enough money he can pay them off and disappear.

    Post # 13
    2959 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

    I’m not sure if I would ever be open to dating a man with children at all, let alone MULTIPLE baby mamas. Without that word I miiiight have chosen option 1.

    Post # 14
    1140 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    I can say neither becuase there are more men out there who are NOT like these examples!




    Post # 15
    2837 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    @Reign14:  I voted for the man with money and children.  And not because he has money.  A PP said that multiple mothers screams irresponsibility– granted, we are all talking about a fake scenario, but I am going to assume that when you say he has money– it’s substantial.  And the fact that someone has and can maintain money means that he’s probably responsible– 

    My dad (extrememly respnsible and has lots of money!!) has my sister and I with my mom, and my half bro with my stepmom, who he has been married to for TWENTY years in April.  What if my stepmom passed away.  Does that mean because my dad has three children with 2 different mothers he’s irresponsible?  Absolutely not.  

    I also had a kid before I got married- so I would never say children are a reason to not be with anyone- I’d be a hypocrite!!

    I think these kinds of questions are fun, but they are also impossible to truly answer.  You don’t know what you’d do until you fell in love with someone.

    Post # 16
    2837 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

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    @Ellicott:  OP said you can’t say “neither”– that was the point of this.

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