(Closed) Which way to go?

posted 7 years ago in Married Life
  • poll: Which scenario would you pick?
    Current plan : (3 votes)
    18 %
    New plan : (12 votes)
    71 %
    Other : (2 votes)
    12 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    903 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2009

    Hmm, that’s tough….I think a lot of it depends on knowing yourself and what you value most. Also, where’s your husband at with all this? Not that he determines what you should do, but it might help clarify things to get his input and see how important your original plan is to him. Realistically, taking time to go back to school will affect both of you (you’ll have less income for that time and potentially less time) so I’d probably make sure you’re on the same page. If he’s supportive and you decide that this career is really what you want to do, and you guys are willing to make the sacrifices to do it, I’d say go for it 🙂

    If you decide to stay in your current job, could you pursue a hobby outside of work that would make you feel more fulfilled?

    Post # 4
    Hostess
    18643 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    If you really want this career, then go for it.

    Personally, I hate being a landlord and can’t wait until it’s over.  The renters aren’t bad at all, it’s just my internal worries about them not taking care of the home properly.  I guess it’s different if you don’t have an emotional attachment to the place though.

    Post # 5
    Member
    7771 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I think the newplan sounds more fulfilling for the long term and your personal happiness- + your finances.  I think you are in a win-win, so don’t worry.

    Post # 7
    Member
    7173 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    @Talishazwi: my vote is for ‘new plan’.  you are still really young and the time will fly.  is that the only option for a program?  meaning, are there any other programs you could apply to (with that one being the ideal one)?  

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