(Closed) Which would you choose?

posted 8 years ago in Family
  • poll: What would you do?
    Accept the suite only : (4 votes)
    22 %
    Ask for the travel upgrade in lieu of the suite : (13 votes)
    72 %
    Ask for both the suite and the travel : (0 votes)
    Other (please explain) : (1 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    6892 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    I say just go with the traval upgrade. You don’t sound like you want or really need the suite for what it’s going to cost him, and even if he CAN afford both, he doesn’t NEED to if you won’t use it for what he thinks you might.

    I’d just explain to him that you were going to get ready at the church for the reasons you listed and that you don’t think you will be up to hosting anything after midnight and everyone will probably be exhausted anyway, and paying for the suite isn’t really worth it if it’s not being used. The beds are nice in ALL the rooms. 🙂

    Have fun!

    Post # 4
    Member
    5984 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 1999

    Hi Tootietoo2 (cute name, by the way) – I selected the second option because it sounds as if the suite really isn’t necessary or what you desire.  What you may want to suggest to your father is the possibility of reserving space (usually for meetings/gatherings/etc) at the hotel.   This way, family and friends could gather after the reception for a post-party without interrupting the newlyweds! 

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