(Closed) Who buys his wedding band?

posted 6 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Who buys his band?
    Bride : (27 votes)
    69 %
    Groom : (0 votes)
    Shared bank account but bride does the legwork : (7 votes)
    18 %
    Shared bank account but groom does the legwork : (4 votes)
    10 %
    Neither, explanation below : (1 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
    53 posts
    Worker bee

    I’m not married, or even engaged, but I was always under the assumption that a bride and groom choose together and then the bride purchases the band. And of course, then the groom would purchase the bride’s band.

    Post # 4
    1284 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    We went shopping together but it was 100% FI’s decision. Technically, he was also the one to pull out his card (to our shared account) too. Traditionally the bride chooses the ring and pays for it. 

    Post # 5
    3520 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    I bought Fi’s.  He went to the store and picked it out first, then came home with the style # and size for me.

    Post # 6
    1729 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    he told me what he liked but i paid for it

    Post # 7
    693 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    We went into Jared’s together to get our rings.  We picked what we liked for ourselves.  My ring went on his credit card, and his ring went on my credit card. 

    A few weeks after the wedding we closed our individual checking accounts and opened a joint (and consolidated our savings accounts), so it really doesn’t matter in the end since both cards are now paid for out of the same acct.  But like someone else said, the symbolism was there.

    Post # 7
    3943 posts
    Honey bee

    We have shared bank accounts and we are each picking out our rings, and buying them together.

    Post # 8
    1715 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    We have shared bank accounts and picked matching bands. Since I am doing most wedding stuff and he can order the bands while at work he will be orderring them for the two of us. This honestly came down to convenience and nothing else.

    Post # 10
    189 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    He basically told me what he was looking for, so I sent him pictures and links of a bazillion rings. He narrowed it down, and we both picked out the perfect ring. We paid for it from a joint account

    Post # 11
    16213 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    I bought my husband’s wedding band, and he bought mine.

    Post # 12
    2067 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    We chose together and I bought it 🙂

    Post # 13
    1245 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    We went shopping together and I bought it.  Our accounts were still separate at the time.


    Post # 14
    4676 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    He is picking it out- we are buying together- shared bank accounts. 

    Post # 15
    3148 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2010

    I don’t think it should matter who pays for it. 

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