Who chose your engagement ring?

posted 1 year ago in Rings
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  • Post # 2
    10275 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2016

    We went shopping together. I picked three I really loved and he made the final choice alone. He also picked out my center sapphire himself

    Post # 3
    565 posts
    Busy bee

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    @whiteswan:  My now husband and I had looked at rings and talked about what we both liked, and he ended up getting me just what I wanted. But, we didn’t design or pick out the ring together as the proposal was a complete surprise and he picked/bought my ring without me knowing he was doing it.

    Post # 4
    907 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2020

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    @whiteswan:  I looked online for ages before showing him anything. Once I was set on one I showed it to him to see what he thought. I knew he wouldn’t get me something he didn’t like. Thankfully he was a fan too. 

    Post # 5
    4403 posts
    Honey bee

    I said we both picked it out, but really I chose the stone and he came with to approve of everything.  Ha.

    Post # 6
    1312 posts
    Bumble bee

    We both decided where to get the ring from and I told him what I wanted, we designed it, and he bought it. 

    Post # 7
    926 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2017

    The only thing I told him was that I wanted a round, brilliant cut solitaire. I left the rest up to him, so he chose setting, size, store, etc.

    Post # 8
    4101 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    We went ring browsing together and I showed him different rings and details I liked. He ended up picking out the final ring himself. I think it’s the best of both worlds. I got the element of surprise at the final result, but he had some freedom to pick the ring with some guidance from me. 

    Post # 9
    561 posts
    Busy bee

    my SO picked it out on his own.  i didn’t know he had already bought a ring so i didn’t have any input.  he did a great job though!  

    Post # 10
    65 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: June 2020

    Similar to everyone else, we went to several jewelers together to get an idea of what I wanted. Then he went to a jeweler that was recommended by a friend that we had not visited togetherand he designed it with them based on what I liked. He did a great job and it’s perfect!

    Post # 11
    977 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2022

    We chose together. Just before quarentine, He asked me to show rings i liked so i showed him 3 and told him to pick the one he thinks i liked most and he got it right! 
    Last week, we went on to choose the diamond specs together… proposal hasnt happened but we confirmed we wnat to be married next year,  plus he said before that we will start taking up pre-marital counseling when engagement is close. We are now on session 3, eeeek! Cant wait to marrry my best friend. 

    so ladies, im not sure if im OFFICIALLYqualified to reply here but i just did !



    Post # 12
    353 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2020

    We went to a store together and decided on a style that’s completely different to what I thought I wanted.

    He chose the diamond for the setting we chose together. After learning all about the C’s with the jeweler he selected a half carat, ideal cut, G. I really appreciated that he went quality over size. 

    Post # 13
    289 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2019

    My husband and I visited some jewelry stores together to get fingers sized and point out what kind of rings we liked best, but when we went shopping for each other’s rings (we both wore engagment rings because he wanted to be proposed to, too, lol) it was independently. I chose his based on what he’d shown me he liked and vice versa. We did well, we both loved our rings and there was still a surprise factor because neither of us knew when the other hand gone ring shopping or exactly when the proposal was coming 🙂

    Post # 14
    7 posts

    I worked with a designer on my rings, my partner just supplied the credit card at the end. But then again, he’s the type who needs to be told exactly what to buy for gifts, etc. 

    Post # 15
    3380 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I was very clear that I wanted to choose my own ring. My husband proposed without a ring and I went and got a super cheap one from Claire’s to wear. We went to the Jewellery Quarter together a few weeks later for me to get my ring. I was given a budget and away I went. I love my ring 

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