(Closed) who climaxes?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Who climaxes, and how consistently?
    We both always climax in intercourse : (51 votes)
    25 %
    He always climaxes in intercourse, but I sometimes need oral/manual stimulation : (89 votes)
    43 %
    I always climax in intercourse, but he sometimes needs oral/manual stimulation : (3 votes)
    1 %
    Sometimes we both climax, sometimes one or the other, sometimes neither : (36 votes)
    17 %
    He always climaxes, I never do : (23 votes)
    11 %
    I always climaxes, he never does : (2 votes)
    1 %
    He sometimes climaxes, I never do : (2 votes)
    1 %
    I sometimes climax, he never does : (0 votes)
    Neither of us climax very often : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I voted for emotional satisfaction. Sometimes he climaxes sooner than we planned (not often by any means), but it’s the emotional bond that counts for both of us. I’m always satisfied after sex no matter what. Well…there’s that .02% of the time when I’m like, “Dammit!” but it doesn’t happen often.

    Post # 4
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    1124 posts
    Bumble bee

    He always does from intercourse, but when I don’t he always makes sure I’m satisfied as well πŸ™‚

    Post # 5
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    61 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I’m with @Mrs Grape on this one.

    Post # 6
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I always climax, I think I can count on both hands the number of times I haven’t during sex. My SO is some sort of freak of nature, he can go for an hour, so there’s plenty of time for it to happen. Altho, sometimes that doesn’t bode well for my self-esteem when he takes so long to climax. But there have been several times where I just know that it’s not going to happen for me, and we don’t worry about it.

    Post # 7
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Darling Husband always climaxes and I usually do but even if either one of us doesn’t, we still both 100% satified when we’re done.  It doesn’t require always climaxing to have great sex! πŸ™‚

    Post # 8
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    we both do.  He has some sick stamina and can go for awhile … and if i feel like i’m not going to we switch up and try something else.  Sometimes it’s a little … I don’t know the word, it’s like his mission?  lol

    Post # 9
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    We have quite a bit of foreplay (for me) and that always helps to climax during intercourse. Fiance doesn’t need all that much foreplay though and he always climaxes. There have been rare occassions when we did not (one did and one didn’t; or neither of us did), and it’s sometimes related to outside factors like stress, fatigue, dehydration.

    Post # 10
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    i voted for the one emotionally satified b/c we both always are. I love having sex with him b/c I love him so much. Usually I always come first, then him, then sometiems me again. He always will come, so he always tries to make sure I’m satisified. Sigh what a great guy lol

    Post # 11
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    @HisIrishPrincess I totally agree with the “it’s his mission”. πŸ™‚

    I voted we both climax because even though I don’t through intercourse, he ensures I go multiple times before he finishes. But I guess that makes it pretty “uneven” because I do have more orgasms per session than he does… he’s a good man πŸ™‚

    Post # 12
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    None of the categories really fit (maybe emotional) so I didn’t vote.  He almost always does, but sometimes requires some manual assistance.  Unfortunately the only thing that works for me is battery operated.  πŸ™  At least now I know what works – first few years of my sex life (not w/him) I was very unsatisfied!  Now I always do as long a toy is around.  Forgotten it or not been able to use it on trips sometimes and that is too bad.

    Post # 13
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    For us it is more about emotional satisfaction & we don’t make a point of “keeping track” however, generally I think I climax more frequently simply due to circumstances. 

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