(Closed) Who do I invite: Shower vs Bachelorette??

posted 6 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Must you invite all your friends from your wedding shower to your bachelorette?
    Yes. It would be rude not too. : (1 votes)
    11 %
    No : (8 votes)
    89 %
    other, explained below : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    First of all, you shouldn’t be inviting anyone to your bachelorette. That should be done by your Maid/Matron of Honor, who should be hosting your bachelorette. But, of course, you are allowed input on the guest list. I say suggest who you would like. If it’s not everyone at the shower that’s okay. Maybe let word of mouth spread that you just wanted tiem to bond with your bridesmaids, or something like that.

    Post # 4
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    2616 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    my shower had every female on the guestlist invited. not everyone came. my bachlorette was just my bridesmaids and i.

    Post # 5
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I second what asianyoushi said.  I invited (almost) all of the female’s on the guestlist to the bridal shower but my bachelorette party will just be wedding party and sisters of the groom

    Post # 6
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    1629 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    No, the bachelorette party is for your closest girlfriends.

    Post # 7
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    174 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Your bachelorette should be your Maid/Matron of Honor, bridesmaids, female relatives and friends who are actually invited to the wedding. I wouldn’t invite people to your bachelorette who arent already invited to the wedding because that can cause awkwardness,  they could assume they are invited to the wedding, or worse…you could drunk invite them and then have huge regrettes later on down the road.

    Your bridal shower should be for the mothers, grandmothers, aunts, your Maid/Matron of Honor and your bridemaids and any close close friends. You shouldn’t be inviting 40+ friends just because. A bridal shower generally is a gift giving event so it should be your nearest and dearest.

    You actually have the two events backwards…your bachelorette party is for you and your friends and your bridal shower is for your CLOSE family, wedding party and SUPER close friends only.

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