(Closed) Who else is marrying a reformed bad boy?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Love this post!! I can’t believe I’m the only one to respond! 

 

I tried a few years ago. I was totally into this guy and he would always ask me if I was going to be the one to do it. He was known to bring so many different girls around and supposedly everyone was shocked he was with me and loved me so much. I thought I had this guy…however, he cheated on me a year after ๐Ÿ™‚ I tried to forgive him, but couldn’t. Sooo was unable to reform that bad boy. I was 26 and he was 29. He’s married now so I hope she tamed him! I gave up on those and got myself something already tame ๐Ÿ™‚ Hahahahhahah.

Congrats girly ๐Ÿ™‚ 40 seems like a good age for a once bad boy ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2010

you can’t change them, they just need to learn that actions have consequences and your not a bit of fluff that is willing to be a door-mat.  most of the time they are in a daze between the football, beer, sleeping, s#x.

as i like to say, this is non work non guy time, we don’t act or  speak that that in this house if we want to sleep anywhere but the couch.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

He changed on his own.  I met him after the change.  He’s told me stories of his college days and his crazy party days.  He’s even been to jail. Sounds bad but it wasn’t that bad.

Anyway, about 6 years ago he went on a church retreat and changed his life after that.  He is such a wonderful man and now we laugh at how crazy and wild he used to be.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

like danalovely i also tried. we dated for 7 1/2 years and i ended up dumping him 3 days before he was going to propose for a super huge lie (one of many).

i definitely wouldn’t say my husband was ever a “bad boy.” he did have his college days where he would drink and party, which is just odd for me to hear about because he hasn’t had a sip of alcohol since i’ve known him (we put grape juice in our wine cup for the wedding) and our bed time is 9:30.

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Mine was like that in high school and early 20s, but now that we’re both older we have both settled down a lot cuz I was the same way.  People that knew us both growing up are shocked to know that they two of us are now old married people lol

Post # 8
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Bumble Beekeeper

We’re a little bit the other way around. J has always been pretty straight laced, a serial monogamist, never partied, very responsible. I was the girl who dated everyone and anyone, drank too much (that’s still a problem sometimes, hah, but now it’s only when I’m with him because I know he’ll get me home), put social life over personal health, etc. I wasn’t necessarily a crazy party girl, but considering the small, conservative religious community we were both brought up in … I definitely made some alternative choices when I was younger. And I never expected to settle down and get married, especially not so young. But when J showed up in my life again after all those years… I just knew. 

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I am going to marry a once bad boy. I didn’t change him, but I’ve definitely helped.

Luckily I wasn’t around during any of his “bad days” I’ve only heard of them.

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