(Closed) Who else is seeing their hubby the a.m. of the wedding.

posted 7 years ago in Traditions
Post # 46
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I saw my husband the morning of the wedding – We spent a few hours shoveling out our driveway together! haha. We lived together, so we spent the night before our wedding together as well. It was the right thing for us. And weirdly, the shoveling actually sent us into the wedding with a good feeling. While I would not recommend it as a morning-of activity, it was sweet that we spent some time as a team before the wedding!

Post # 47
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

We are getting married out of the country, and while we technically could sleep seperately, we don’t want to. I wouldn’t want to wake up without him on our wedding day. We plan to get ready together and make the whole day about us, not just parts.

Post # 48
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

I was thinking about scheduling a private breakfast for the two of us that morning to get in a little alone time & relish in the day we’ve been waiting for for the past 7 years!

Post # 49
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Bumble bee

We live together, we will absolutely be spending the night together, we’ll probably be having sex the night before (but it’s doubtful we’ll have time that morning).

Post # 50
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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busybeebee: FI & I are that pukey couple that does almost everything together (not where we dont do things by ourselves) It would be so weird, if we did not see each other the morning of our wedding. 

Our Plan: Wake up together at our venue spend the morning relaxing. Then we will get ready separate (ill be at the salon, with the girls  getting ready & having brunch). Then about 5 hours later we will do our first look 🙂

Post # 51
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Helper bee

We’re having a destination wedding in Spain and we’ll be seeing each other the morning of the wedding, some of my partners family have suggested he stay with them the night before, no way, we’ve hired a lovely finca and want to spend as much time in it as possible, also lived together for 7 years now, I think we’ll be ok! I think the whole tradition of not seeing the bride before the wedding is outdated unless you’re strictly religious and haven’t yet slept/lived together, he won’t be seeing me in my dress but we’ll be spending the morning together in different rooms getting ready.

Post # 52
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

Dh & I even had lunch together.  That was always my fantasy– to marry a man who was so much my bff I’d want to hang out with him on my wedding day.

He dropped me at the hotel right after which gave me just enough time to get ready.  Ok, I was late, I admit it.  But the day was really nice.

  • This reply was modified 6 years, 6 months ago by  sassy411.
Post # 53
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

We’re staying together in our hotel the night before. I dont sleep well without him and I need my rest that night! My mom isnt thrilled about it but I’m breaking a lot of traditions she isn’t happy with so oh well 🙂

Post # 54
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

We are waking up together, getting ready together, driving to the venue together and walking down the aisle together. We have done everything together for the past 3 years so I don’t see why our wedding day should be any different.

Post # 55
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

We stayed in the same hotel the night before the wedding. We saw each other briefly that morning then he went off to do some stuff at the reception venue and get himself ready with his groomsmen while my bridesmaids and such came to the room to help me get ready. We wanted a little bit of that anticipation of not seeing each other until we walked down the aisle but we certainly weren’t superstitious about it. A couple of people were like “oh really, you’re staying together?” but then we reminded them that we live together and no one really cared.

Post # 56
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

We’re having a Destination Wedding so it was getting stressful trying to think of who could sleep where the night before the wedding.

in the end, we couldnt see the point anyway…we are out there together, have been living together years etc. we’d rather spend the night together, have breakfast together in our room then go our separate ways to get ready. Some of our older relatives think its weird but we wouldn’t want it any other way.

  • This reply was modified 6 years, 6 months ago by  SellyJo.
Post # 57
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

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busybeebee:  We are doing the same thing! We are getting ready practically in the same place too 

Post # 58
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Helper bee

We were living together and I was 10 weeks pregnant the day we were married but we spent the night before seperate. 99% of the reason was that I wanted my dress to be a suprise and it was nice to spend one last night/morning in my parent’s house as Miss Maiden Name.

  • This reply was modified 6 years, 1 month ago by  keepitsimple.
Post # 59
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

Our wedding is in TWO DAYS! We will be staying in the same hotel room the night before, so I will see him in the morning when he leaves, and then we won’t see each other again until the first look!

Post # 60
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I’m staying at a hotel the night before and hoping to have my BM’s come over for a pj party.  But we are also doing a “First Look” so I’ll see my Fiance aboiut half way through the day for pics before the ceremony around supper. Tradition be damned!  If Jill abd Derek can see each other and they are WAY traditional, anyone can!

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