(Closed) who else is sick of these type of girls??

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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313 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Wow. Umm, okay.

You do realize that she probably was just saying that to distract from the fact that she probably has a screen name and posted in the “Waiting” section everyday obsessing about getting engaged.

It’s not right, but sometimes people are negative to hide their hurt.

Post # 5
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1577 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I can see how that would be annoying.. when your friends are asking you about one of the most important days of your life and you’re all happy, on cloud 9 talking about it… that’s not exactly what you want to hear.  It seems odd for someone to say something like that in that particular situation.  No one is talking about you or your relationship.. why are you bringing it up & comparing it?  Strange.

Post # 7
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851 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Calm down.

She probably just wants to be part of the conversation, also you are completely incorrect to say they are not practically married, infact, in the eyes of the law they are.

I am so glad the girls I work with are all lovely.

Life is not a competition, perhaps take a step back and tone down the negativity.

Post # 9
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351 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

To be honest I’ve said that comment before; usually if someone asks or we are joking around about it (or if someone presumes we are married). I haven’t said it in response to finding out someone is engaged or married. 

I wasn’t hurt that Fiance waited years to propose. I wasn’t jealous of anyone that was engaged or married before me. Most people automatically presumed we were married before we were even engaged. Strangers make comments all the time about us being husband/wife; we just inform them we aren’t. 

We know we aren’t married and that’s fine with us. It’ll happen when it happens. In the mean time we celebrate those that are engaged/married/committed to each other in whatever special way they choose. 

 

Post # 10
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851 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

You are not making any sense. Whats not your problem? What are you on about?

She is not trying to belittle your marriage, she said nothing about you or your marriage. You are not the only person on earth who has a relationship, and having a ring on your finger doent give you the right to go around belittling other peoples relationships.

She has been with this guy for 7 years, so yes, they are “Practically married”.

Post # 12
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1941 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@littleG: what if they don’t go to church? then wouldn’t they then not care about “the eyes of the church”?? why does religion get drawn into everything?

^JUST asking, not being snarky!

Post # 14
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351 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@LessIsMoore: You hit the nail on the head. 

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@littleG: Myabe just take a step back and take a breath. I don’t think she was trying to belittle you or your marriage. Just because she and her guy are on a different page doesn’t mean she was making a comparison, just stating what seems right for their relationship. Not yours.

So congrats on your upcoming wedding. Plan and talk and be happy! Don’t let things get to you. This is supposed to be a good time!

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