(Closed) Who gets a thank you?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Send one to everyone that attended.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee

I’d send one to everyone who attended, thanking them for either their presence or their presence + card/gift.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I would say just send a Thank you to everyone that attended your party. That way you can avoid the whole “You got a thank you and I didn’t” conversation that could happen. I would thank them for simply coming to the party and thank the ones that gave a gift for the gift.

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

No one is ever offended by getting  thank-you card, whereas many are if they don’t. That’s always my guideline.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee

Thank gift givers.  The non gifters were thanked by your hospitality at the party.  By correct etiquette they should be sending YOU a thank you for hosting them.

I think sending “thanks for attending” thank yous can often come off as a “where’s my present” reminder.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I always feel really special whenever someone sends a thank you note for taking time to come to a party

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