(Closed) Who gets invited to the bachelorette party?

posted 10 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
7555 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I don’t think there is any actual etiquette on who should be invited to the bachelorette aside from they should be invited to the actual wedding. If your logic for inviting them to the wedding (to avoid drama) is right wouldn’t not sending them an invite to the bachelorette cause drama? NAd since you said it wouldn’t be the end of the world I say just invite them.

But technically you do not have to invite every female on your invite list to the bachelorette. 

Post # 5
486 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

I did not want to have a huge bachelorette party. I wanted it to be low key and intimate. Only the girls in my wedding party are invited – my sister (MOH) is planning it. My SIL on the other hand had every one shes ever met at her bachelorette party. So its really personal and there are no etiquette rules, I think.

Post # 6
97 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

You could justtellyour sister you want a small party and help her create a guest list. That way if it’s small those two girls will hear its small and hopefully relax a bit.

Post # 7
31 posts
  • Wedding: July 2012

Do what you want for your bachelorette party! 

As PP has said, just say it’s small and intimate. For my party, I’m having all my closest friends only come over to my house one evenings for drinks, games and food, then the next night we’re all going out on the town with extra people that I ‘should’ invite. So maybe you could do that if you think it might really cause problems if you don’t invite them? That way you get two parties too 😉

But don’t feel you should have to invite certain people, it’s your last party and you can invite who you want to!

Post # 8
1484 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

There is no ettiquette for who must be invited to a bachelorette party. The only rule is that you can’t invite anyone to the bachelorette who is not invited to the wedding.

My bachelorette will have about 15 girls. I will not be inviting most of the girlfriends of FI’s/my friends because I only know the dudes, not the ladies.

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