Post # 1
My Maid/Matron of Honor wants a list of people to invite to the shower. Am I supposed to invite all the females who are going to be invited to the wedding? My Fiance is inviting some female co-workers to the wedding that I don’t really know, and I feel a little weird inviting them to the shower since I wouldn’t recognize them if I saw them out in public. What’s the etiquette on this?
Post # 3
i think the only etiquette on this is to make sure don’t invite someone to the shower who is not already invited to the wedding. after that, it’s basically a party in honor of YOU so limit it to your close friends and family if you want.
Post # 4
Generly, yeah, all the women invited to the wedding should be invited to the shower. but it depends on how your Maid/Matron of Honor is doinng it. a lot of people have 2. one for his side & 1 for her side. some people do them co-ed. it just depends on what you like & what your bridesmaids can afford. in the end, if you feel uncomfortable, just don’t invite them. if they ask, say it was family only. but, remember, you’ll miss out on the presents!