(Closed) who goes first reading their vows?

posted 8 years ago in Ceremony
  • poll: who goes first reading their vows?
    The groom : (7 votes)
    47 %
    The bride : (0 votes)
    It doesn't matter : (8 votes)
    53 %
  • Post # 3
    928 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Ive always seen it to be the groom. In fact, I have the entire script for the ceremony that came in my church binder (yes, it was a 3 ring binder FULL of information lol but it has been handy) and it has the groom speaking first.

    Post # 4
    1166 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Funny, we didn’t discuss this in advance, but I assumed it would be him. When it came time to say our vows, he said, “Ladies first!” Laughing

    Post # 5
    9053 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    It was groom first at ours. 

    Post # 6
    952 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Well I thought that is determined by the officiant? It was at ours. I read it first.

    Post # 7
    4038 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    He read his first. He didn’t have to, we flipped a coin the day before to decide who would read first. 

    Post # 8
    7695 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I think its normally the groom but I dont think it matters

    Post # 9
    7975 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    He did, but I don’t think there’s any reason behind it!

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