(Closed) Who had sex on their wedding night?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Did you have sex on your wedding night?
    Yes : (147 votes)
    73 %
    No : (55 votes)
    27 %
  • Post # 3
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    There was a thread on this a while back and I was SHOCKED at how many couples did not have sex the night of!! No judgement, but, I honestly cannot imagine being *that* tired. lol.

    Post # 4
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Nope, didn’t happen. We were both exhausted, me especially (we had an after party and didn’t get back to the room til about 3am), and he was preeetty tipsy. I did put on pretty lingerie, but we both basically collapsed into bed. But we made up for it the next day and on the honeymoon 🙂 

    Post # 5
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    2154 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    LOL – they sound like real “keepers”! In all honesty, I’d be disappointed too, but… just LOL.

    Post # 6
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    3522 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Yeah, I can’t imagine being that tired. I think it helps that we won’t be drinking or anything, though.

    Post # 7
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    18643 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    As a former bride, I will speak up about this.  Yes, I was that tired!  First of all, the bustle was resting on my lower back and it hurt so badly.  Plus my health issues that causes pain after being up and about too much and I was so not in the mood.  My husband wasn’t either.  PS – I didn’t drink and my husband only had a beer.

    Post # 8
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    @MrsSaltWaterTaffy: Oh, I can imagine that the bustle and actual physical pain would make for a crappy night. 🙁

    Post # 9
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    529 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I was sooooooooooooo tired but that said, I had been waiting all my life to make love to my “husband”. So I sucked it up, put on my silky white lingerie and, well, you get the picture. I’m glad we did. It was a special day throughout (obviously) but busy, ya know? So “that” time, along with the “I do’s” solidified everything. That’s not to say that I couldn’t see it go the other way, too. In that case, we would have simply made love in the morning.

    Note to the OP: If my hubby said any of those things I would seriously start to consider who I married !!! Surprised

    Post # 10
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010

    i voted no, we were exhausted on our wedding night to do anything – but 4 scuba dives (2 before and 2 immediately after the wedding) and a beach wedding in sun will do that to you

     

    Post # 11
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2009

    I wasnt tired… but I was on my period.

    Post # 12
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    10288 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    We’re still 10ish months away from the big day but I can already tell you that we probably will not have sex on our wedding night. I know its different when its your husband and all but we’ve “been there and done that” about a bazillion times so its not like we’re waiting for our wedding night to be intimate. We’re both totally on the same page too (he’ll probably be asleep before I am). If we have the energy then sure, we’ll probably get it on but its not that horribly important to either of us (theres always the next morning and the rest of our lives). Our reception ends at 11 and then we’ll have a 2-3 hour after party so by the time all the wedding festivities are over, I’ll probably just want that comfy hotel bed.

    ETA: In the last 2 years we’ve known about a dozen couples who have gotten married. More than half of them didn’t have sex on their wedding night due to exhaustion. 

    Post # 13
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    We were soooo wired after the wedding ended at 1:30am.

    We read ALL of our cards and our guestbook (while still in our wedding get-up), then we took all the pins out of my head and I took a shower. After my shower we had a bath together (My BMs had decorated our sweet with petals and candles. And then we had sex. It was the perfect night in my opinion.

    However, we didn’t set any expectations. If we wanted to drink we were free to do so (we never have sex after drinking… I am not a fan of the insensitivity I get or drunk dick for that matter) but we were on such a high neither one of us drank. I think not having expectations made for a relaxed intimate evening.

    Post # 14
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I thought we’d be too tired and was prepared not to have sex, but we ended up having sex and it was wonderful 🙂

    Post # 15
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    682 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2009

    Considering I got about 3 hours sleep (and not consecutive!) the night before and we had an after party where we stayed out until about 3am (? I’m actually not sure what time we made it back to the room, I lost all track of time that weekend!) I figured it wasn’t gonna happen but it did and it was fabulous!

    Post # 16
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @FMM: Lol, we call it a “Liquor Dick” in these parts. =)

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