(Closed) Who has a threesome with their SO or fiancé ?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Would you have a threesome with your SO?
    Absolutely! Why not? Nothing wrong with trying something fun! : (52 votes)
    11 %
    No. It will ruin our relationship : (368 votes)
    76 %
    Hmmmmmm maybe : (67 votes)
    14 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    5296 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 1993

    whoa, not me. I’m insanely jealousof my Darling Husband, and he of me. No 3sies here.

     

    But maybe an exception for Hugh Jackman or Adrianna Lima. 

    Post # 5
    Member
    2849 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I’m going to say no to this one. It would be way too weird, and I’m sure Fiance and I would feel jealous in the situation. 

    Post # 6
    Member
    2651 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2016

    neither of us share well… so totally not in the cards for us either.   I don’t think i would be able to trust my after it, because you have bacicly said, “yea i am ok with you having sex with another woman…” IMOH

    Post # 7
    Member
    574 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    Not for us, but I’ve had some friends who told me they had a great time having one.  It’s really up to each couple, but for us, it wouldn’t end well for anyone involved.

    We have talked about it before though.  DH would want another girl and I would want another guy, so clearly, aside from our jealous issues, it wouldn’t happen because we would never agree!

    Post # 8
    Member
    2657 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    No to this on so many levels.

    Post # 9
    Member
    804 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    It’s not really for us.  Unless it’s an unenjoyable experience, I wouldn’t count on the fantasty being out of the system…if I eat a piece of chocolate, it doesn’t mean I won’t want a second piece!

    I can totally see it working for some people, but I don’t think it would for us, especially if it was a “one time” sort of deal.

    Post # 10
    Member
    1774 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I’d never consider it! The problem I’d have would be seeing him with another girl. Ugh. It’d be like cheating in FRONT of me. Anyone see Get Him to the Greek? I imagine it like that… only with two girls.

     

    Oh, and no dude/dude/lady. That’s scary!

    Post # 11
    Member
    3220 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    I say no, not because of jealousy issues or because it would “ruin our relationship”– we just believe marriage is only for two people. 

    EDIT: “only for two people” for us, that is! I have no problem with people doing anything they want to do as long as there is mutual consent.

    Post # 12
    Member
    5296 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 1993

    My problem is two girls=not enough penises, two guys=not enough entrances, cause sorry, if I’m the girl, you aint’ getting no backdoor, and I don’t want no stranger danger.

    Post # 13
    Member
    5296 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 1993

    damn double post been stalking me all night

    Post # 14
    Member
    1629 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Not for me, but not because I think it would necessarily ruin the relationship (I’m assuming it would be totally non-coerced, non-pressured). Just totally not my thing, nor FI’s. The only way I can see it being hot for me is with 2 guys, but Fiance can only see it being hot for him with 2 girls, so there’s that major issue lol! A good friend described trying it with her ex, and it was great for them, but I just never really saw an appeal in it for me so I’ll pass. 

    Post # 15
    Member
    1133 posts
    Bumble bee

    Definitely a fantasy of mine. With a random guy I’m dating or with a casual boyfriend. Even a serious boyfriend. With my current SO?? The man I will marry and have a family with?? I can’t stomach it. I think I would seriously die at the idea of him touching, kissing, grabbing, enjoying another woman. I feel like threesomes have it’s place and I regret never doing it in the past because there is NO way I would ever everrrr share my man with anyone else :0 ahhh no. no no no. lol. We had a convo about this and I started crying because the thought is too much to take. lol

    Post # 16
    Member
    11391 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    No way! I would never share my husband, he is all I need & I am all he needs! I find our marriage to be sacred & would never ever have a threesome!

    & Not even before we was married!

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