(Closed) Who has cooler friends… you or your SO?

posted 10 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2008 - Winery in the Gold Country

What are the standards?  Like, cooler by outside looking in status?  I’d say my friends are cooler than Mr. Peng’s friends, in that they are more attractive and social, but Mr. Peng’s friends are wittier.  They stick to their own kind and are kind of rude to people outside of their social circle, which, to me, makes them very uncool in the eyes of others (especially cause they’re not generally like… super attractive or anything).

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

We were just having this conversation over the weekend!  I have a lot MORE friends … but I think his friends are "better" because they are so close!  He has a group of about 20 friends that are truly inseparable. I do think that I have funnier friends – my friends really make us both laugh out of control whenever we’re all together. His friends are much tighter and have seen each other through a lot of things. 

But the other thing we talked about in this converstaion was that our friends are just that — ours – both of ours!  We’ve been toegther for three years, but known each other for nearly 7, so we both know each others friends very well. He’ll talk to my friends and I will chat with his all the time. So we’re really getting ot that "our" thing. Espeically when either of our friends begins to date someone new that person is new to both of us, so they become both of our friends. 

 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2005 - Westside Loft, New York

Mr. Bee wins on this one. (I hope my friends are not reading this.)

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

I’d have to say his friends..which works out just as good since I love all his friends and their wives/girlfriends!

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

Nita – I’m with you, so far there’s only one wife/girlfriend of his friends that I don’t like … all the others are awesome — it’s like I started dating him and gained 10 new girlfriends! 🙂

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee

ME!!  My girlfriends are awesome and all have cool SO’s that my Fiance gets along with very well.  We tend to socialize more with my friends because of it : )  

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I think I do. Darling Husband has become really good friends with my friends so now they are our friends! He’ll play poker and basketball with all the boyfriends and husbands in my group of friends. I think they are just a more down to earth bunch of people.

DH’s friends are really nice too, but most of them live in other countries, so we don’t see them often. He tries to keep in touch through email and facebook though.

Post # 10
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Haha I like this question.  Sadly, I think the fiance wins as my friends are more quirky, while his are more fun and witty.  But like Nita says, it works out great because I love all of them!

Post # 11
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I would have to say him. He has the MOST cool friend. I have cool friends but not nearly as many as him. I guess that means he’s a great guy and attracts great people.

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Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

🙂 this one is funny…. definitely Mr. kris has the cooler friends.. they are so funny and witty! 

i always have a blast with them! 

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

We hang out more with his friends, but I think mine are cooler.  We’re very different people, he and I, and are used to our own little comfort zones!

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