(Closed) Who in your family are you already worried about dealing with?

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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488 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@musician32992:  I’m so with you!  My Future Mother-In-Law cannot stand her ex husband (they have been divorced for over 10 years…. Get over it!) And they haven’t been in the same room in who knows how long.  I was told that my FI’s father probably woudn’t even come to the wedding, and wouldn’t you know he was the first one to RSVP yes!  I really hope that these adults act like adults! 

Post # 4
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286 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Ugh, my younger brother is 6’5 280 pounds and has the sourest attitude of any person I have ever met – I’m so worried he’s going to be in a bad mood and ruin the day for everyone… or worse be in a good mood and pick me up over his shoulder like he loves to do since I’m his ‘big little sister’ while I’m in my dress… >.>

I made him an usher in hopes to keep him under control – he’ll feel important and busy.  Seventeen year old guys… IDK. 

Everyone else that I was worried about didn’t get invited. 

Post # 5
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2523 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

On my side: Both of my mom and dad’s extended family. They are…and there is not a nice way to say this…they have very trashy attitudes. On my dad’s side, he has 9 sisters, no brothers. His sisters take advantage of my poor grandma in every way possible. It’s shameful. They live physically like they don’t care for themselves or their children. I don’t have a close relationship with them.

On SO’s side, his mom and dad went through a super bitter divorce because his dad cheated 6 years ago after 20 years of marriage. Because of this, SO’s mom is extremely angry towards anyone in love. When SO initially told his mom I was “The One” when I first met her, she said that even though I was a nice girl, she hopes he keeps all of the love letters he writes me so he can have them to read when we’re divorced and hate each other.

I know it’s because she constantly talks about SO’s dad and her anger towards him, but she can be a serious buzz kill. She goes from being really nice to me to not being able to handle the idea of him getting married. He’s talking to her tomorrow to give her the “low-down” on our upcoming engagement.

He said she may not like it, but she’ll get over it. But he still wanted to let her know that we are getting married, because he loves her and that’s his mom.

Post # 6
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872 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I am worried about my father-in-law. T_T 

I asked him if he would pray over us as a couple in the ceremony and he acted as if I was poking him with needles. 

He still hasn’t given me an answer….My Fiance says maybe I caught him off guard but the way he has been treating me and our wedding I don’t think I “caught him off guard.” 

First of all my Father-In-Law thinks we should break-up since my Fiance only makes $400 a month and says “It is impossible to get married so why try?” and thinks the 5 and a half years I’ve been dating his son doesn’t mean anything. Also, when one of his daughters asked me, “So have you picked a date out yet?” he shook his head before I even said anything! Then I said “Yes, we did! July 15th, 2013!” and he just sighed and walked away. WTF?

I am not looking forward to him at our wedding in the slightest, he is such a boob.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I am worried about my over-opinionated ass-hole step-grandfather.  The day after I got engaged he said I should have court house wedding because only %50 of marriages work and I shouldn’t bother wasting my money on something that won’t work out in the end.  Lovely right?  I just can’t wait to see what he says at my wedding. NOT!!!!

Post # 9
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757 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Ugh I am worried about my FI’s closest Aunt. She has a tendency to make scenes when she isn’t the center of attention. She is also upset because her daughter is in a long-term relationship and isn’t engaged yet, but Fiance and his sister are both getting married in the next year (we are older and have been together much longer but apparently that doesn’t matter). At his graduation she and her daughter got into a fight and threw drinks at each other in the middle of the faculty reception. 

Post # 12
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3174 posts
Sugar bee

My Future Mother-In-Law. She didn’t have a wedding and she wants me to have 300-400 people. I don’t know that many people and my grandma is helping pay for the wedding and said that we can only have 75-100 people. Future Mother-In-Law is also trying to tell us where to have the wedding and what kind of food to have. So planning this will not be fun.

Post # 14
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3174 posts
Sugar bee

@musician32992:  That’s how my Future Mother-In-Law is. She wants the best of everything. She already asked if Future Sister-In-Law could be a bridesmaid. And her niece asked if she could be a bridesmaid. I said no to both and they were mad at me for a while. 

Post # 15
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3772 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

My brother… he’s made some really stupid decisions recently… some of which are now affecting our family. It makes me so sad that he’s just thrown his future away because he thinks he deserves everything and constantly needs to be the center of attention. He did something yesterday that is making me think about not allowing him at the wedding. I’m not going to get into it though because of privacy issues on here. The whole thing just makes me super sad and worried for him at the same time.

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