(Closed) Who initiates??

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Who initiates??
    ME! : (45 votes)
    39 %
    Him : (70 votes)
    61 %
  • Post # 3
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I can’t vote ’cause there’s no option for “Neither – we’re having a dry spell!” lol

    But usually, it’s honestly close to 50/50. Though I wish it was more like 70 (him)/30. I prefer to be seduced! 🙂

    Post # 4
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    Bumble bee

    Hmm. Both. Sometimes he tries to put the moves on me, and when I want to do it I usually will just start undressing and ask him if he wants to join me.

    Post # 5
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    I would say 60/40. With me being the 60 😉

    Post # 6
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Both!

    Post # 7
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    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

    Both of us, depending on who is feeling more in the mood at the time

    Post # 8
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Prob 70/30 (me being 70)

    Post # 9
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I’d have to say it’s pretty equal. . .or I try to keep it equal.  He’d probably say it’s closer to 60/40 him.

    Post # 11
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I’m probably 60% and he’s probably 40%.  Funny example from earlier this evening – I’ve been exhausted all week, but we haven’t done it in a few days, and I wanted to but wasn’t horny at all.  Basically, he was up for it but also not feeling it in that moment.  So I took my shirt off, he jumped off the couch and grabbed me, and that’s how it started.  I guess that’s an example of me initiating, but nothing really happens until he grabs me.

    Post # 12
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Both! We sometimes schedule hanky panky (lame lol)

    Post # 13
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I’d say 60% <— him  40%<—- me.

    Post # 14
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I would say 90 him 10 me. But thats only because he is initiating all the freakin time. So I dont really ever have a chance to!

    Post # 15
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    Helper bee

    It’s probably 60 % me and 40 % him.

    Post # 16
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    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Where’s both?

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