(Closed) Who initiates more

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Who initates more?
    You : (42 votes)
    23 %
    Him : (93 votes)
    51 %
    Equally : (43 votes)
    23 %
    Not Applicable (ie waiting for marriage) : (6 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 2010

    ummm that would be me 😀 i want to “jump his bones” whenever i’m around him.  and he just grins and obliges… (i guess it’s hard work when your woman wants you all the time lol)… he only seems to initiate it when i’m asleep :D…

    Post # 4
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    4566 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Hmmm…

    Post # 5
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    2054 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    Definately him…but thats because he is like a 17 year old boy in that department…wants to do it ALL THE TIME. I guess thats a compliment lol…he wants to jump my bones all the time!

    Post # 6
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    2280 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I’d say we’re pretty equally randy. 😀

    Post # 7
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    620 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I’d say equally…sometimes it might be one of us more than the other, but I think we even out!

    Post # 8
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    2725 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    Him, but I’m trying to initiate a little more often 😉

    Post # 9
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    184 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: December 1969

    me, because he does not like to get denied so he lets me initiate.  i think he likes to feel wanted, who doesn’t?

    Post # 10
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    3587 posts
    Sugar bee

    Me. On or off the pill, my sex drive is HIGH. LOL! (I say off because I went off them recently.lol)

    Post # 11
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    362 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Well… it used to be about equal but now it’s almost solely him – not because I’m not interested.. It’s a long story but he had a medical problem for a while there that made sex very uncomfortable/painful.  He is much better now but I’m still shy about initiating because I got rejected a few times during that period which, honestly, bruised my ego.  Besides, I don’t want to hurt him so I would rather him initiate so that I know he’s feeling well enough.

    Post # 12
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    873 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 1969

    I think we’re pretty equal, but it depends on the time of the day.  If it’s night, it’s 100% me, but if it is morning it is 100% him…except when I’m jet lagged…then suddenly I become a morning fiend which makes him very very happy!

    Post # 13
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    Him Him Him I just don’t feel heaps into it these days,

    Post # 14
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    1119 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2009

    We’re equal on this one.

    Post # 15
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    1756 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Him. I lost my job about four months ago, and this whole being unemployed thing is messing with my mojo.

    Post # 16
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    1016 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    Me.  Definitely me.  But every once in a while it seems to even out.  He’s been away since September so I’m REALLY looking forward to our reunion in February (and he better be too!)

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